A true natural using Triangles



Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 3 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Tools & Techniques of Game: Meeting, Attracting and Seducing Women » Natural Game




Author Message
PostPosted: Sun Apr 12, 2009 1:12 am 
Offline
PUA Forum Leader
User avatar

Joined: Sun Sep 07, 2008 3:30 am
Posts: 810
My cousin is a true natural. He has never read any pua material and has learned everything he knows naturally. That being said, I have notice one technique that he has used time and time again with great results and he doesn't even realize he's doing it.

When there is a hb two-set (or larger), he will flirt with both hbs and see which one is into him. He will go direct and give out blatant SOIs. When it seems like that hb is hooked and the other hb is feeling left out, he will switch and start gaming the other hb. He will either stay with the second choice or go back and forth all night until he has built up enough interest from one of them to f-close.

The real interesting part is to see how when a jilted hb's ego is bruised she will ignore every other guy in the bar and focus only upon the one that dissed her. Since he has done this to both hbs, the entire focus of the group is upon him (which eliminates distractions and competition). At this point the hb doesn't care about getting a guy, she cares about proving herself so that her ego can remain intact. The ego is a truly powerful thing and an hb will do just about anything to repair it. Not to mention he has eliminated the potential for a cock-block. If either friend tries to cock-block the other, they are simply perceived as being jealous because they lost.

It is incredibly brilliant and incredibly simple. He doesn't make himself the prize, he makes the "idea of himself" the prize. The women don't even really want him, they just don't like the idea of losing him to another woman. And once they have committed to getting him back, the Consistency factor makes them escalate things further. Not to mention the fact that two women competing over him sends his social proof through the roof.

I know triangles are commonly discussed in the pua community. But I just wanted to share my experience of seeing a true natural use this technique in field.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sun Apr 12, 2009 7:58 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Addict
User avatar

Joined: Thu Oct 30, 2008 8:57 pm
Posts: 264
Location: U.S.A.
Haha I like it.. I was looking to explain this the other day just didn't have a name for it. However, the concept is great.. oh and It's how I got my first 3sum last weekend. So there's some more credit for 'Working in Triangles'

_________________
Get Some


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Fri Apr 17, 2009 3:37 pm 
Offline
Member of MPUA Forum

Joined: Mon Feb 02, 2009 4:05 pm
Posts: 150
Ive witnessed this phenomenon in person, without even setting some shit up. That competition factor is something you can count on especially if the girls are single....

IF you ever witness the shit you'll be throwing up some thanks to nature for making things happen the way they do.

See if i can explain this here...not as deep but same idea.... I was suppose to have this ordeal with a amigo. I didn't meet up with him and he got pissed(i didn't know this till later read on)....Later on i caught up with him and all of a sudden while its quiet some chick turns around to me and says "Is this the dude you said you we're going to beat up?" I ask Whats this??....hes cuts in "Well uhhh u know i was sort of mad a bit when you did not show up"...then here comes girl number 2 " Yea he was cussing and all this said he was going to jump you". I look back over at my guy just laughing like HA these girls just squealed on you to me about all the shit you said while i wasnt around.... girl 1 tattled, then girl 2 decided to chime in as well.....


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sat Apr 18, 2009 8:38 pm 
Offline
PUA Forum Leader
User avatar

Joined: Sun Sep 07, 2008 3:30 am
Posts: 810
There is this book "The Power of Influence" by Robert Cialoni, that explains some of that.
Basically human beings want to maintain consistency in their actions and in there speech. If you start acting a certain way around people, you feel like you have to keep up appearances even if you don't want to act that way any more. Your friend has always acted respectful toward you, therefore he has to keep acting respectful even when he doesn't want to. On the other hand, he was acting tough and angry around the 2 hbs, and they noticed the lapse in consistency when you showed up and he started acting normal. This is probably why the first hb tattled, people don't accept inconsistency in other people. It makes sense to me that the second one chimed in. People are constantly looking to other people for the appropriate actions to take. Basically monkey see, monkey do. Once the first hb tattled, it was human nature for the second hb to do the same thing. Monkey see, monkey do.

Same principles as in my triangle story. A girl starts flirting and is interested in a guy and she has to maintain her consistency and pursue further. The other girl sees this and also becomes interested, monkey see monkey do. Playing off these two principles, a woman's consistency factor makes her escalate repeatedly just to maintain her consistency.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sun Apr 19, 2009 1:25 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Zealot
User avatar

Joined: Sun Oct 05, 2008 12:51 am
Posts: 315
Location: Chicago, Il
wow i just wanted to say that this is a great post. That is a huge tool for natural game that im going tho have to start implementing


Top
   
 Post subject: Social Kombat!! FIGHT!!
PostPosted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 10:35 am 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast
User avatar

Joined: Mon Jan 05, 2009 7:56 am
Posts: 83
You made one OUTSTANDING point! Literally the KEY to everything you said!
"Women hate to lose to other women!" This dynamic even applies to their female children. Some women choose NOT to have kids becoz they just DONT want the competition! Its true. Trust me.
THE ONLY REAL SOCIAL DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN IS HOW WE COMPETE!! That's it that's all FOLKS!!
Men, we compete PHYSICALLY and psychologically.
Women compete SOCIALLY and psychologically.
This dynamic is both our strength and weakness!
When applied properly against us these are the MOST effective tools in town!
I use the jealously plotline as often as possible whenever possible. Women are sick! They both love it and hate it as well as love and hate you for knowing how to use it against them! They will thank you for spicing up their day/night then turn around and blame you for it!
It comes down to this, women MUST show social/replicative prowess by "UPSTAGING" other women! This is becoz of the social structure of the world in which we live. We teach women that in order to get a man you MUST have more VALUE than any other bitch in the room! Thats why this shit works. I do it all the time in bars!! It works best with a pivot and a target!

_________________
BE The Game!


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 6 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link