Okay I kinda got one-itis right now but the girl I met is a fucking model, and one of the coolest people ever...so like open to second date was no prob in fact she was so into me i didnt have to say anything and she was qualifiying herself to me...so by second date i had kiss closed and here's where it goes down hill I gotta a little to klingy and call/texted her a little too much and she started showing some IOD's so what i want to know is is there a way to recover from a bad move i mean she's def. still interested but just more cautious and not to the same extent...love to here from you guys...Out

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Everything you wanna be...Thats me I look like you wanna look, I fuck like you wanna fuck, I'm smart , capable and most of all I'm free in all the ways your not~Fight Club

It's hard to say without knowing details, but best way to recover from something like that is to simply stop. Just let her wonder some and let time take it's course. If she calls, let it go to your voicemail and get back to her. If you have to call her, keep it short and sweet.

agree...take a your time a bit...in adition if it seems like she won't call first out of pride then maybe set up a quick hang out something you know she'll say yes too (if she says yes than you know theres hope)...nothing really datish or romantic... and then when that day comes cancel it a few hours before explaining how something came up and your busy...(avoid explaining how sorry you are...just be to the point)

Then by the next time you'll hang out things should be back in balance and all the damage that was done w/ the abundance of txt's and calls will probably be forgotton about as long as you don't go there again.

The key to not fucking this up is still be nice just not pathetic!!! This way she can't say anything bad about you to whoever except we were supposed to to hang out but somehting came up and he was busy...

Let me know what you think.


I learned this stuff from my first gf in high school. I was terrible to her but she stuck w/ me for nearly 2 years on and off. Then after not seeing each other for a year after freshamn yr in college was over we had some sushi and i figured maybe i can get back together w/ her but being a nice person instead of the douchebag i was. So i told her what i felt and was thinking and lets just say she wasn't interested...then i pulled the asshole card again doing something along those lines up top and i had her back until i realized i didn't actually want her

Edit: for the record i just want to say i personally hate games like that but sometimes they just have to be played if you want to keep the girl.