I have been on 2 dates with this chick + a double date.

1- first double date with a friend of mine it didn't went to well
2- second date kiss her and she was horny as hell
3- third we when running, kiss in the rain very romantic it was good

Then, she goes on spring break so I haven't see her like in 2 weeks, so here is the text exchange between her and me, from when she was on spring break to today. I am 24 and she is 19, I want to get physical but I cannot seen to get the third date.

Saturday the 04/04
Her: my L knee is strained
Me: I wish I was there to take care of that knee. Put some ice or something
Her: I need a kiss on my knee:(
Me: okay kiss muahhhhhhh good night, miss you
Her: That made it feel much better! thanks cutie hahaha. goodnight juan

I didn't text for a week becuase she never text me first, she was back in town and she never text me or call WTF

Saturday the 04/11
Me: hello
Sunday the 04/12
Her: Hey! sorry my phone was off last night. Happy easter!
Me: No problema, Happy easter to you too
Me (2 hours later): Guess what my I got my car back! So when are we going to meet?
Her: Oh awasome! I have no idea man! Idk if I am able to go salsa-ing yet.
Me: Excuses, excuses, ok what ever
Her: Dude Im serious. These last few weeks of school are packed with a lot of things. I am basically a slave lol.
Me: okay Dude! take care of business and call me when you are free. You miss the Salsa congress last week it was awesome!

So what should I do next? I am a little piss. I need to go sargin

you seem to me like your coming just a little too strong. thats all i got

you made it clear that you want to hang out. sit and wait for her to text you. if she doesnt who cares. in the mean time go on to another girl..

sounds like your trying to wife this girl up. dumb.

I agree I am coming too strong. How can I get back on the game? I plan on texting her again on thursday, I plan to use the slave thingy to my advantage...

so here is the text that I am going to send her thursday
What do you guys think?

Sounds like she's interested and she defends her excuses not to go salsa dancing. Some girls just dont text/call first. You already said to tell you when she's free so i think the best move is to say hello once in a while and let her bring up meeting up =). Get other girls while you're at it.

You put it in her hands. I'm not sure that was the right thing to do. You're in charge.

Also texting her every few hours is probably a killer. Just my opinion.
I'm not sure I'd call her "dude"

Also, don't forget that text is impersonal. No body language. It's tough to determine whether you were just kidding around with her (with the excuse thing) or whether you were pissed.
Putting it in her hands again. Possibly not going to work. And then you're going to have to call/text again. And if you do that too often, always putting decisions in her hands, you will look stalkerish on top of lacking imagination.

I say change tactics, turn the tables!

Find something interesting that YOU would like to do. Something that won't require her knee to be 100%. Then text something like:

Hi! Hope you are feeling better. I'm going to [insert awesome place] and [will do awesome things]. Wanna come? It's [insert place and a FIRM DATE and TIME].

Make sure it's something you will enjoy genuinely whether she comes or not. Plan out the evening so it kicks her ass if she comes but for extra congruence, make it a real event you will have fun at even if she DOESN'T come.

If she says no, go anyway. Even better if there are other girls to game there. Repeat the pattern a second time. Propose a second date a week later or so. Again with a firm time and place. If she doesn't come, you're probably better off forgetting her. She's playing you.

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Thanks man from now on I will always be incharge. Should I ask her "wanna come" or should text her "see you [insert place and a FIRM DATE and TIME]. "

Or that is going over charge

Regardless of the massive amount of post im gonna get calling me a needi idiot, some girls wont call or txt 1st. But calling and txting can cause attraction if u have the text game

this girl is fking weird or she think she is playing me

I send her the text with the gardiel and she replied:
^ any who read this knows that she is into me

Then I replied to her, "that I am doing okay etc etc, that I going to make her my salsa slave ete etc. Than I told her that I was going satuday at 10 to this place and that I was going to do this and that, and I asked her wanna come?"

She hasn't reply to me since yesterday WTF I think my only possible move is to wait, correct?
Oh and I number close 3 times yesterday, I am getting good at this

I would say that the right thing to do is to wait, yes. You have given her an option, now it is up to her to contact you, or no deal.

3 number closes? Good job

you keep putting it into her hands, i wouldn't do that, it shows inferiority and puts her in charge, after, your the one wearing the trousers...i hope

i use this line all the time to get girls to finally admit they like me, i call it "the pressure technique" because it ends up pressuring/persuading them into telling you how they feel about you :]

"don't you just hate it when people don't tell you they like you! its so annoying. i just had a girl tell me she used to like me...and now she doesn't. if i'd have known i would of made a move! some girls are just plain stupid when it comes to relationships"

never ask a question with it! thats all you say in that text! if she talks about it more, change the subject

thats the basic, its worked every time for me, without fail...thats at least 50. obviously you'll need to change it to your vocab so it doesn't seem like a line from a book etc. if you need extra help with her replies to that etc, PM me, that goes to everyone.

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/\ I like your line a lot , so when should I text her??? the date is supposed to be tomorrow, if she doesn't text me I am still going. So again, when should I text her??

the TARGET didn't reply to my text and didn't show up I done with her fuck her! I just want to send her one last text. What should I write???

I text her today with the line that TEEN suggested but I have to modified a little to make fit my text character space .

My TEXT
The she text me 20 minutes later
WTF I am completely lost, she didn't even said why she didn't show up or why she didn't text me she wasn't going. Do you guys think maybe she didn't got my text?

I am completely lost here