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JSmooth
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What up J

What are some tactics you use for getting girls who send short/closed replies to open up? ie. you message a girl and she responds with boring one-line answers. Obviously there is some interest there or she'd just read+delete.
Well you might not be giving her much to comment on, or she might just be kind of cold. It'd be really awesome to have some examples to read through from where you are getting these one line answers back. Try asking more open ended questions as well.

Do you have any you can post for me to take a look at, so I can give you better insight?

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For sure man,

I send the divorce opener (it's a few threads down in its entirety, "Perfect Online Game", but the basic jist of it is you open by saying, "Hey, after a rigorously brief overview of your profile, I had to let you know that I've already married and divorced you in my mind. Thanks for all the imaginary memories, you'll always have a special place in my heart".

One girl replied back, "Original...but if you had half the money you'd be in debt"

So I replied, "At least give me my dog back, I'm so lonely without him" (I see what you mean about not giving her much to comment on here)

Her last reply was, "You can take him, I'm sick of the stupid mutt"
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You need to change topics and lead into a new conversation to give this some place to go.

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Hey J, once again i am asking for your assitantence! How i can put more DHV's oor anything you think would make this better ...thanks in advance...

Strong confident and intelligent.
My user name is just right, I love new adventures, I am always doing spontaneous things and surround myself with fantastic friends who are amazing people.
I have my life together, and I’m more than the usual
amount of interesting and funny, so you'd better like to laugh!

I am picky, unlike the majority. I say this because all my past girlfriends had something in common, they are interesting people who don't just rely on looks. I don't just grab the first thing. As I hope you don't?
Am looking for somebody who can challenge me intellectually, so if your model type who can't tie her own shoes i ain't interested.

I pride myself on being an exception. I love unique people, its amazing when a person stops following the crowd and acts like an individual.

I am more interested in people that can hold a conversation, it helps.The strong independent women is very attractive, and somebody that is NOT just a good "cook"!
I say this because all my past girlfriends had something in common, they are interesting people who don't just rely on looks.

So write, at the very least we could be friends…..
(Don’t bank on me catching you on my viewed list … just say “hi”)

I heard that its good at a young age to tell that you have your own place (which i have) ...is this so ??
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Hey JSmooth,
I enjoyed your videos!

So I met this girl who is a waitress and we exchanged emails a while back and nothing much happened. I saw her again and worked some good game on her in person and we discovered some common ground and she asked questions about me like what I did ect. then she said about how her manager was looking at her because she was talking to me and she mentioned she wanted to change job soon. I gave her a few tips and as I was starting to ask her out she had to go seat sombody at their table and before she came back the manager came up and asked me what a wanted in an aggressive maner. I then shook her hand and said see you soon and she said 'write me'. I have her email but wonder..

a. should i email her or go to her work to catch her in person to ask her out.?
b if i email what should i write? i dont feel good about asking her out via email

thanks in adavnce

p.s. she is also south american she her english is not perfect.
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Hey J, once again i am asking for your assitantence! How i can put more DHV's oor anything you think would make this better ...thanks in advance...

Strong confident and intelligent.
My user name is just right, I love new adventures, I am always doing spontaneous things and surround myself with fantastic friends who are amazing people.
I have my life together, and I’m more than the usual
amount of interesting and funny, so you'd better like to laugh!

I am picky, unlike the majority. I say this because all my past girlfriends had something in common, they are interesting people who don't just rely on looks. I don't just grab the first thing. As I hope you don't?
Am looking for somebody who can challenge me intellectually, so if your model type who can't tie her own shoes i ain't interested.

I pride myself on being an exception. I love unique people, its amazing when a person stops following the crowd and acts like an individual.

I am more interested in people that can hold a conversation, it helps.The strong independent women is very attractive, and somebody that is NOT just a good "cook"!
I say this because all my past girlfriends had something in common, they are interesting people who don't just rely on looks.

So write, at the very least we could be friends…..
(Don’t bank on me catching you on my viewed list … just say “hi”)

I heard that its good at a young age to tell that you have your own place (which i have) ...is this so ??
This is really good thus far. I would leave out having my own place unless you can insert it somewhere without it seeming like bragging.

You actually did the past girlfriend thing twice above using the same sentence so take out the second mention, since it's the exact same sentence. Otherwise it's really good at describing what you are like and what you are looking for, with DHV spikes inserted to create attraction. With the right photos this will be a great profile.

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Hey JSmooth,
I enjoyed your videos!

So I met this girl who is a waitress and we exchanged emails a while back and nothing much happened. I saw her again and worked some good game on her in person and we discovered some common ground and she asked questions about me like what I did ect. then she said about how her manager was looking at her because she was talking to me and she mentioned she wanted to change job soon. I gave her a few tips and as I was starting to ask her out she had to go seat sombody at their table and before she came back the manager came up and asked me what a wanted in an aggressive maner. I then shook her hand and said see you soon and she said 'write me'. I have her email but wonder..

a. should i email her or go to her work to catch her in person to ask her out.?
b if i email what should i write? i dont feel good about asking her out via email

thanks in adavnce

p.s. she is also south american she her english is not perfect.
Hey RandD,

Glad you like the videos on YouTube. I have a lot of fun making them.

After reviewing all that you said. I really think that you should start emailing her to stay in touch and keep you in front of her so to speak. After all she asked you to "write her." However, I agree that since you met her in person you should ask her out in person if at all possible.

When you email her you just want to further your connection with her. It sounds like you two have had some good dialogue so far. Just continue what has been said so far. Build off of conversations you have already had. Ask if her boss is still making her mad. Ask her about growing up. Anything really to keep the interaction going.

When you get the opportunity try to go by her work or another place to ask her out. Make sure when you do that you already have some places in mind to take her, not to mention the days as well.

Hope this answers your questions.

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hey J SMOOTH, last year i met a girl in facebook, everyting went fine and she gives me her msn... i talked with her and we discover that we are both at the scouts, since then we met alot of time in partys of common friends and in alot of trips[ i dont know her before i saw HER at the facebook]...I talked with her sometime at this party\club but i didnt advance from this point...[i dont kiss her and even i dont have her number...]
my quetsion is that: i saw her last time before half of year and i want to date with her[ and i can to talking with her only at the msn]... i have never taken number from girl in msn that i know before.. i dont know how to start the conversition from this point if.. someone can give me tips and exemples for how to start talking and to going to the goal " the number phone"..[ i'm 16 years ole of it's important]
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I have two quick questions:
1- How should I respond if at all to comments on my facebook photos that are just that comments not really saying anything?
2- Sometimes girls add me and I see them online and ask them how they know but they get cold and pin it on me saying I added them when I'm funny, how can I fix this?

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This girl I like now has a boyfriend. I commented on her FB status the other night, and then her bf messaged me telling me back off (Insecure maybe?). I told him off proper. Naturally, I'm laughing at his jealousy and insecurities. Any advice you have?
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and god bless!
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hey J SMOOTH, last year i met a girl in facebook, everyting went fine and she gives me her msn... i talked with her and we discover that we are both at the scouts, since then we met alot of time in partys of common friends and in alot of trips[ i dont know her before i saw HER at the facebook]...I talked with her sometime at this party\club but i didnt advance from this point...[i dont kiss her and even i dont have her number...]
my quetsion is that: i saw her last time before half of year and i want to date with her[ and i can to talking with her only at the msn]... i have never taken number from girl in msn that i know before.. i dont know how to start the conversition from this point if.. someone can give me tips and exemples for how to start talking and to going to the goal " the number phone"..[ i'm 16 years ole of it's important]
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i am sorry about my english
KROGER1,

There are several ways to get the phone number but there is a huge lurking problem here. You have known this girl for some time now. She has talked to you on Facebook not to mention has seen you in person. Her first impression of you was formed some time ago, and there isn't much I can do about that. There really isn't anything you can do about it either. You have to figure at this point she is either attracted to you or she isn't.

It's a tough idea to grasp but it's the truth. You have already had multiple chances. Still, to answer your question the next time you have an active conversation you just simply ask for her phone number to continue your conversation later. Say something like, "I have to go now, but before I do...I'd like to continue this conversation later. What is your # so I can get in touch?"

JON

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I have two quick questions:
1- How should I respond if at all to comments on my facebook photos that are just that comments not really saying anything?
2- Sometimes girls add me and I see them online and ask them how they know but they get cold and pin it on me saying I added them when I'm funny, how can I fix this?
Hey pillow_fight,

1- Most of the time with people sending quick one liners on pictures aren't really to be commented on. They are just there. I really wouldn't say anything back unless you can "add" something to the conversation.

2- I'd work on a better opener than that. That kind of puts the girl on the spot for her possibly showing some interest. Make it a little easier to talk to you. You might just say something like the divorce opener. "After careful review of your profile I have married and divorced you in my mind. Thank you for the awesome memories. PS. I want my dog back. LOL."

Hope this helps,

JON

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This girl I like now has a boyfriend. I commented on her FB status the other night, and then her bf messaged me telling me back off (Insecure maybe?). I told him off proper. Naturally, I'm laughing at his jealousy and insecurities. Any advice you have?
AFC Kumar,

I agree that her boyfriend sounds pretty insecure based on him telling you to back off. You also have to consider the possibility that she might have told him to do that as well. Anyways, I think you did the right thing by telling him off properly. Forget this girl and move on, there is nothing to be gained from continuing talking to her.

BTW, I'm laughing at this insecurities too. :lol: :D

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Hey JSmooth, oftentimes when I send out a message to a girl I get a short reply like, "lol ur funny". I used to just abandon these threads but eh, why not give it a go and try to wedge the interaction open. Any general tips on protocol for this?
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