Wassup, this is my first post. I have been reading a lot of PUA information on this website for about 2 weeks now. Saturday night my buddy and I went downtown to the bars to test it out and wing each other (college town, UGA). We went into the first bar, saw a set of two girls and my buddy opened them, honestly because of the loud music I couldn't hear it, but I made sure to lean back and maintain comfortable dominance, big smile and energy. It was working, I just tried to ask different, interesting questions, and criticize them on their answers. Ok, well it was my turn. I saw a really sexy brunette walking through, I unfortunately had to lean in for her to hear me but then I backed off a little, I said, "Hey wassup, your very cute, I wanted to talk to you, and learn more about you. I mean beauty is common, but I wanna know what makes you special." (taken from Mystery). Her face lit up, she was smiling ear to ear. My confidence was through the roof. Unfortunately her boyfriend was trailing behind her, shook my hand and said have a good night, and left with her. Oh well, moved on, opened more sets. To anyone new reading and learning PUA, correct me if I'm wrong, but it just seems to me the more you practice the better you get. I progressively became more comfortable, and had much more interesting conversations, the more sets I opened up, and this was my first night! I started to see just how bored these women are, and how badly they want a guy to just grab them and have a conversation. They love being picked up, they love the game, and I do too. Once I was sexually framing that in both my words, and body language, things became more natural. Do yourself a favor and read ALL of Chief's post, its because of his information I believe 'natural' gaming is WAY better than scripted PU (although I love checking online for great openers, and negs). If you present yourself as a 'LOVER' in every way, and kino escalate correctly, it seems everything will fall into play. So anyway my buddy opens another set, hot asian girl, and her very cute friend. Without saying anything, I assume my role as ALPHA, and as a LOVER, and just started dancing with her. She started light but the more I grabbed her whole body, the more she would grind . I really wish I number closed her, after a couple songs, she left. I think I made a mistake, I was soo into it, that I never pushed/pulled her or maybe I should have just turned her around and kissed her. I was so pumped up I went onto the dance floor opened a two set on my own, at this point I lost my buddy but it didn't matter. I danced with both of em, but ended up really dancing with one of em in the end. I number closed her by handing her my phone and telling her to put her number in. I kissed her on the cheek and said I had to roll. Bars closed and I found a taxi, I hop in the back and a blonde hops up front. I said "I have no clue how to get home do you know where [blank] is?" I asked her about her night, she tells me how terrible it was this long ass story. I would have negged her but it seemed there was no need. I said, "Well thats where you made your mistake tonight, you should have found me." She smiled. I gave her my phone, told her to put her number in it, and next time I'm downtown, I'll show her a good time. I really wanna perfect my game, I feel like I need more conversation game, and I really feel that in the college game, kino escalation is accepted more quickly, I need to work on doing this a lot faster. I'm pretty good looking or at least women tell me that so I don't really have a problem with AA. The main thing is sometimes I felt myself get nervous, because I was thinking of something interesting to ask her about. If anyone has any tips based on my story, please let me know. I want to master this shit, any and all advice is welcome, thanks. VISIONS.

Its freaking awesome to hear a newcomer to the game actually go out and just try stuff out, having fun and not care intensily about outcome; all this before getting too caught up in material and memorizing a million things (I was kinda guilty of doing that..). Obviously you could have done different things and gotten different maybe better results, but still, you seem to know the most important thing about going out is having fun.

In terms of getting better, its sooo true that practicing is really what will plow through AA and sticking points - much faster than reading material, pumping yourself up, etc. But, of course, theres some amzing stuff out there to compliment, and explain what you learn by mistake in the field. But honestly, if you keep doing what you're doing, you'll naturally adjust and evolve yourself subconsciously, rather than trying to learn to change habits consciously by reading material.

Side note: there's no scientifically proven correlation between being good looking and having/not having good looks. I got a friend, looks like a fish, and is cocky and extroverted as hell.

One other thing dude... please oh please write in paragraphs.

Cheers

yo visionz i finally got registered on these boards

quit hanging out with your ex and let's repeat this shit.

Hey visions, dude it was a nice story, im glad you went all the way with those negs, and that playful attitude you showed to those sets. Im also kinda new on this PU game, ive been reading some stuff and playing the game for some months now.

As i Read your story, I did notice the part when you saw that gorgeous brunette and negd her a bit, and then you saw she came with her BF.... although many girls, when played correctly, might be willing to cheat on their BFs, maybe id say you should have calibrated the room, or the the set (target) a little bit more.

Lets say, first notice shes got a BF, then if youre feeling confident, make your introduction to both of them, not just the girl, if your energy is high up, shell definetly notice, and if youre fun enough and make a good game, even with the guy in the set, she might dig you enough to , uhm lets say, bump into you later night at the same venue, and give you her number with out her BF noticing. ok I just mean, calibrate a bit more that aspect =)....

Now, youre indeed right about the practice. And YES as mystery said, it takes opening at least 3 sets before you can get "into the groove". The 3 warm up sets.

Lines are useful sometimes and natural way is good some other, lets say they're two different styles of gaming, although if you like using lines, then when you practice a lot, you start feeling that its actually not the lines that pull the trick out, but the confidence, and the natural aspects of your inner game that do.

Keep up good work, and sharing your experiences. PEACE !

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Nice work. I like how you enjoyed the buzz from it. I remember the first time I put any PU material into effect, it was just an opener in a bookstore and a minute or two of witty conversation, but it was exhilerating!

One small point I noticed is that you told the blonde up front that she was beautiful. There wasn't much detail in there but I get the impression you might have complimented her a little early without her having to work for it. I think the rule of thumb is you don't compliment a hot girl until you've at least kissed her, preferably until you've slept with her.

But that's a minor thing. Good job. Keep up the good work.

This was a special case; it was a very bold anti-directional approach (whatever you call it on these boards when you're walking one way and she's walking the other way) and the BF was walking BEHIND her which means he didn't know about the BF until it was too late.

Visions: I got jake reading the game. We opened a set together tonight at a dance club of Kevin's and got boyfriend blocked, and then opened another set at Budha which worked better... but jake didn't say anything and i did all the talking.

Do you still check these boards or are you back with your ex?