ok so i started getting some info from this forum but i am a very green newbie.
I don't know anything, i don't know how to open or how to continue. The problem is i can't seem to find information here. I have worn out my patience for the day trying to find some step by step info about the first 2-3 steps i need to exercise before moving on.
So what are they? 1. The opener. i can find info on particular cases, scenarios but not general stuff.
2 ???? what do i do after the opener(hoping that it works)
3??? this should probably be the middle point. What is it and how its done?
I'll practice these steps before moving on. So i need to inform myself on what they consist of.

This belongs in the noobie forum, but I'll answer here anyway.

The first step is to talk to girls. Lots and lots and lots of girls. Talk to them on the street, talk to them in the coffee shop, talk to them at work, talk to them everywhere until you are immunized to Approach Anxiety. AA never actually goes away, but if you feel the fear and do it anyway, you're well on your way to greatness.

Don't worry about openers or what you do after openers or what you do after the thing you do after openers until you have mastered this concept. Feel the fear, do it anyway. Go in feeling like a loser. Have nothing to say. Just walk up and say hi. Tell girls you like how they look. Tell girls that their jeans make their ass look fabulous. Tell girls that if you weren't gay, they'd be coming home with you. It doesn't matter what you say, just get out there and talk to them.

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-Monkey's Little Brother, Spud

Monkey=Dead "Balls on" accurate.

That is step one.

When do I go to step two?

When you feel you can approach anyone (male OR female) off the street without you doing any of the following then you can move to step two.

Things NOT to do (Caused by AA and other things, IMHO)

Talking exceptionally fast
Looking at the ground or not being ABLE to hold eye contact
Fidgeting
Putting your hands in your pocket (to not fidget OR any other reason)

And most important... When you approach your target within 3 seconds. And in this stage your target can be either a man or a woman. Doesn't matter. Your not in this stage to get laid or get a number. You are in this stage to throw off that AA-monkey on your back (Sorry Monkey )

IMHO that is when you are ready for step two.

thanks for the advice. So i guess .... this is it...here i go!

Here's a basic layout of the forums and order of which you should do things.
Search the posts in these sections to get more info/advice about anything you need.

1. Approaching and Opening
2. Building Comfort and Attraction
3. Closing and Day 2’s