There is one part of the phone game that is not clear to me. For example, D. Dangelo (and I believe some other "guru's" as well) suggest that after you set up a date with a women, you tell her this: "If you are not a good kisser, we can only be friends" or "If you are not a good kisser, I will not date you anymore".
The statement is meant to be cocky and funny (which is good!) but it's intention is also to communicate to the women that you are the one who is the selector, in other words: you choose her and not the other way around.

Now I wonder this: you are communicating to her explicitly that there will be kissing on the first date (yes, it is bold, but still..). Does this not make you come off as needy and predictable? Even if a women is really interested, she knows that you intend to kiss her. You may have been joking, but the chance is realistic that she will start to really believe this and this can not be good, I think. Furthermore, she can always respond with a C&F herself by saying for example: "Do you really think there will be kissing on the first date?" or "I never kiss on the first date, I just go to get to know something about people". Such an contra question/statement is very likely to come.

Two questions:

1. Do you think it's good to start talking/joking/teasing about the kiss before the first date actually took place?
2. How to respond properly to her contra question/statement in a C&F way or some other teasing routine?