| There are some really crap opener suggestions on this forum!
It's like people think too much into it.
I used to have Approach Anxiety but I'm overcoming it slowly but surely, but once I'm in, my openers are just to make the girl respond and laugh.
So my method is to say the dumbest and most random thing that even YOU would be surprised to hear if somebody else said to you.
With me, if the girl doesn't understand the humour in the opener, she's a dumbarse!
For Example,
1. Go up to a girl, act alil pervy, and make her feel you're going to compliment on her look, build the tension. When the tension is built, break from this character and compliment on something she wasn't even expecting!
2. In a shop, go up to a girl and say "You see that man over there, the shop assistant, he's promised me 11% discount if I can see underneath your left foot. This will probably baffle her or make her laugh. Then sit on the floor, cross legged and wait for her foot! This is just to get her to show you're wacky coz who does that??!
3. In a club, go in with the usual cheesy chat up lines!! But here's the trick, do it in a way where it seems like it's your first day on earth and you need to try these chessy lines. Make sure she can see you coming tho! Say "Excuse me, Do you come here often?" Act really shy and retarded!! Then when she laughs, break out of the character and discuss other lines that are cheesy...Or something along those lines.
See I don't think it's what you say. Its your delivery and your character!!
Say anything! But don't think too much into it. Just surprise yourself
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