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Went speed dating two weeks ago. Been e-mailed today about girls who also chose me; I've been given their e-mails. At the time I thought I would select all girls that I found attractive, seemed fun and and who weren't weird. Now I have 8 replies (didn't expect so many) and I don't remember which girl was called what etc, just have all these e-mail addresses and names whose faces I can't remeber; I guess they've forgotten who I was as well. What am I meant to e-mail them? Should I wait or e-mail them straight away before other guys? Do I ask for their phone numbers? If to arrange a date-whats a good first date?
How I see it (MM), I have already attracted them enough for them to send me their e-mails (most girls' slips that I saw had only selected 2-3 guys at the most). With 2 weeks having passed (I know... expect flakes), do I re-start with negs etc?
Lots of questions, I've never done this before. I would be grateful for any constructive help.
First recomendation, spend some time digging thru JSmooths Online dating thread... TONS of usefull advice on online dating and how to go from there..
I may get shit for this, but I usually recomend not Negging online... its so hard for a girl to know that your not serious and can blow off a potential interest... be funny and tease be interesting.
Yes you got emails, build on that immidiatly.. and get away from the Email and into something more instant as soon as possible... in person, on the phone, IM...
and then just escalate escalate escalate