i removed this. anyways just read my other posts.

well i understand what you are going through, well since your over your social anxiety and your handsome you got the green light to talk to as much women as you want and screw up, or your going to be nervous and try to make every approach perfect and never get anything done. Just do it, you gotta start somewhere and get rid of some girls, youll have a lot more girls later and youll be better at getting them. I have a saying i use and its "Thats my pussy and im gonna fuck it".

so was I, so? I made out for the very first time when I was 17.

I'm 18 near 19 now, and trust me, no one's hurrying you. you take as much time you need (not too much neither haha).

Even Mystery himself claims himself to be a late bloomer, didn't lost his virginity until late 22's.

what's the hurry? you discovered this PU world at 17. By the time you are, 24 let's say, you'll be untouchable. take different times for different people.

don't think in you unsuccesful past, for that means you're not ready for the succesful future yet.

GL man

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hello

Good example about the eye contact mate because eye contact was (still is a bit) a big problem for me aswell. The way I sort of conquered it (or am conquering it) is start of in a comfortable way, so for instance when you talk to family and friends practice holding eye contact with them. Then after a few days of doing this, practice it when talking with people who you know a little less (like a teacher or a classmate you don't know very well) after this just try holding eye contact with people you don't know at all, be it walking down the street or holding eyes with the cashier when you are in a shop.
Just take the little steps and it won't be long before you can comfortably hold eye contact with just about anyone.

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Musterion's Journal

My friend, I was on the same boat as you back in highschool, I was on the bottom of the food chain, people thought of me as a loser, but I made it to the top using PUA and you can do the same.
Im at the top now, but I still don't get as many girls as I should be getting, last time I hooked up was 2 fucking months ago

Anyways I'm gonna provide you with some guidelines to help you out. Im not guaranteeing success by following these rules, but I can guarantee that from sitting on your ass, doing nothing and staying the same you, you won't make any changes whatsoever.

I'm gonna post them up later today, I need to think about how I got through my struggle to give you the best advice

With Regards, Sharkoffs

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hey i apprexciate your support feels good have people i can relate.

dude, i feel for ya completely. im a senior in highschool and untill three to four months ago i was in your shoes. depressed, fat (still am kinda fat but not obese) and couldnt talk to people. the way to go is just take your time, like everyone said u found the community early and ur in no rush to do anything. when i was in jr. high i was on my way to being a pua, (i literally had women eating out of the palm of my hand) but then i befriended someone who just shot my self esteem and sent me into the state your in now. the way i got out of it is one day after reading some of the guides here and watching some videos on YT. i told myself "i AM going to be a PUA i dont care how long it takes but i WILL be one, i dont CARE if a woman rejects me but i WILL approach them and just not give a shit anymore" once i decided that i was gonna improve myself to become a better person and started actually doing what i decided everything fell into place man. Just believe that you're worth the girls time and that if they dont wanna talk they're not worth your time. Dont get discouraged man keep at it and i hope to hear about your improvement... keep us updated!

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I just had my first kiss this past Fall, during my senior year. Just start thinking positively and confidently. Speak loudly. If you're shy with girls, befriend an unattractive girl and get with her cute friends that's sorta what I did although I'm sure better ways exist.

I am going to tell you about my experience because I know u have been through what I have been through. Although I hope you didn't. Chiefly, i am not making up this shit yet this happened before i found about PU.

i am a foreigner and back in my town, i was COOL! However, when i got to USA and to "the high school", i was at the bottom of the pile! I encountered a whole knew setting and i was supposed to survive. i thought i was in jail. I was super SHY and didn't want to talk cos i had an accent and fit the stereotypical foreigner perfectly. This caused problems. where ever i go, ppl would diss me. Girls guys, everyone. i didn't have any respect at all. ppl who talked to me were those who pitted me. so i stuck at home and stayed there as no one would want to hang out.

i got fucking annoyed of the whole world for not accepting me! then i met KEN! he changed my whole life! dude, he had a simple life. he was a foreigner too but ppl somehow respected him. He had a gf, he played soccer, and sometimes basketball (all for fun). he had a very pleasant personality and most of all, a purpose. to do the best he can to be successful. i adored him. Then, before i moved to another place, we met up for fish and chips! he told me there that he could have never made it through school without me. i was fucking speechless!!!

Then after i found the community, i realized that he was friendly outgoing funny and cocky and was frank about what he believes in! Total alpha male. really....? NO! He was just living his life. He HAD a life. Since i met him, i found other people who were just fun to hang out with. i started to make friends and more friends. i didn't find these ppl before i met Ken because I only had extreme hopes for myself. Being the Saviour of the school from dragons was one of them. Lol. Sure, people still dissed me but i HAD a life. it didn't matter to me anymore. I went to the gym with a friend, I study with ppl, went to the movies with a couple of others, and celebrated my b-day with a couple others. soon, the dissing stopped too! i learned how to be a fun and social guy. After this happens, even if no one can make it to a study date, it will be totally fine. I am not getting stuck into the 'old life'.

Life just got easier. Now, since I know what really goes on, I don't get dissed at all. Because I am not doing silly things that will get me dissed. I look up in the eye to people when I talk to them. I find out if they are cool, then I hang out. I also know how to avoid being dissed and being looked as the geek, or the dork! Tell me if u want to know more about this. As soon as I started mixing around with people, I figured out things like. For example, I am not going to attempt to bench 170llb even to show off because I just can't! These lessons are what u get from taking the time to start approaching. If u dont look someone in the eye, you will never know how to counter the anxiety that comes with it.And finally, take it slow. Unknowingly, I did so. I didn't realize this until I got into PU. if you ever think you have a setback once in a while, it is OK! You are still on track! Improve little by little!


Remember; 20% theory, 80% practice

keer ur completely right, persistence is key. improve your social circle and let your friends work for you. by doing that you give them a great friend. dont think PU is all about women, its about improving your overall life with confidence and happiness. Go out and like i said earlier just practice and be confident and itll fall into place gaboelkid. and when you do this COME BACK AND TELL US! im glad to help and i wanna hear about ur progress man!

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-moony

lol

The secret... You're from a spanish speaking country, aren't you? so am I

The book "the secret", which states as you well said the laws of attraction is the spanish translation (I think) of the Mystery Method, by erik von markovik a.k.a. Mystery,, and it is one of the fundation stones of the pick up artist ideology, along with "double your dating" and "the game" among others. I (and everyone) highly recommend those.

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Damn this is exactly like me. The only diff is ive recently gotten over social anxiety. What I did was say fuck it and got some pills helped a ton kind of a crutch or w/e fuck it I used em for 3 weeks and gamed at the same time. Now that im off of them I know that I can so I do. If you cant get a script then id recommend taking some public speaking classes i know it will suck and youll hate it but "no pain no gain". Another thing just remember your the shit and girls are lucky if you waste your valuable time on them, if they dont dig you then there fucking weird! U can use shyness to your advantage too "mysterious" or w/e I do that every now and then but you CANT be nervous when you do talk to them they can smell it.

thanks