this is just to show an example of what it takes to get a girl on myspace. It goes from the very beginning to basically me having this girl thinking about me day and night. Like i said its more for younger guys than older ones. But feel free to critique on what i could have done better or whatever. Take note this conversation spans months so my attitude and hers changes. also note that i almost slipped up when i brought up my ex. I only brought up my ex so she can have something to relate to and it backfired in my face but i recovered well. she's also young and stupid (which is why its great for young guys) and i start calling her baby out of nowhere. its like making her my girl with or without her approval. which they usually seem to go for. its a mix of cocky and funny, sweet shit, and sex shit. from now on all i have to do is talk to her like once a week, and remind her that she is never going to be my girlfriend and i got her in the bag. i can coast now. also notice she tries to turn some thiings into sex but once i planted the seed of sex in her mind i can safely move away from it and keep the convo at a more mature (seeemingly) level. i never really acknowledge her looks. if anyone wants me to post future convos between me and this chick say so. hopefully someone gets somethin out of this.

start reading from the bottom and move up then when u get to the IM just read from the top down.

She says:
hey sweety
vince says:
ohh shit!... hey there
She says:
haha
i know
vince says:
whats up chula?
She says:
awww nothing baby.. just here doing some work for my school
u
vince says:
i got good news! i just got my company e-mail up n running
She says:
really> yey!!
haha
vince says:
yeah the website is still being built cause im teachin myself how to do it but im gettin there
but u can now reach me at XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
She says:
haha its ok i suck at computers
oh ok i see
vince says:
org*
She says:
so how are u
i was thinking of u today
thats crazy
vince says:
im good. kinda excited. umm thats bout it. just chillin. why were u thinkin bout me?
She says:
well thats good. why u all excited for hu? naa i was just thinking how crazt it was that we started talking and we still do
vince says:
im excited cuz im talkin to u. got me all hot n bothered
haha
we aint been talkin that long

Starting a Video Call with She ...
End call (Alt+Q)

She says:
awww.. im excited 2 cause im talking to you as well. yeah ur right.. it hasnt been that long but its surprising we have been able to keep contact

She accepted your Video Call.
End call (Alt+Q).

Your Video Call has ended.

vince says:
opps
She says:
lol
vince says:
guess so. sow aht homewrok u doin?
She says:
its for my P.e. class. i have to act like im the teacher and create a lesson plan but i gotta be creative bout it
vince says:
ohh. what u got so far?
She says:
well its an ocean theme.. so its gonna be like a little mermaid theme... and im making princess crowns for the girls haha.. im teaching 2nd graders
vince says:
i was gonna say! high schoolers are not cool with the little marmaid
She says:
lol

no these are little kids
im sure they will like it a lot
vince says:
aight. so whats up with them pics ur gonna send me?
She says:
haha im working on those pics..
what kinda pics u want
vince says:
haha i aint gonna tell u. u give me what u wanna give me
She says:
haha alright.. ill work on some new ones and ill send em.. ive got some ive got on myspace.. u want some
vince says:
nah its aight. i'll wait n let the suspense build
She says:
haha alright then.. sounds good to me
and where i my pics
are
vince says:
im over here laughing cuz i knew u were gonna ask! so my roommates all left for the phillipines for 2 months right so i got the room to myself. N im walkin around naked and dancin n shit
n i decide to take pics... i was gonna just randomly send u one but i never did
but besdies that i havent taken any recent pics though
thay're all like a month old
She says:
hahaah dancing naked hu?? I LOVE IT.. haha u shoulda just sent me one..
vince says:
hell yeah i dance my ass off!! its the best thing 2 do... u neva dance naked?
She says:
hahaha sounds fun.. maybe i should try it tonight in my room
vince says:
yeah and then tell me if you dont ahve a blast. u gotta play cheesy music too
vince said (11:33 AM):
hold on i gotta get my laundry
She says:
ok
vince says:
back
She says:
ok
vince says:
but ne ways i aint gonna send u a freaky pic unless u return the favoor. aint nothin free in this world sweetheart
She says:
haha.. thats a good one.. alright.. sounds good to me
vince says:
uh huh. i would have more 'normal' pics but i havent done nething worth takin pics of lately
just work, the gym, more work. cant party no more
well lemme kno when ur ready 4 me 2 send it thne
She says:
awww alright ill let you know when i take em. and why cant u party no more
vince says:
well i can. n i do. but lately i just got diff. priorities
She says:
oh i see. thats good.. i like that
vince says:
well thanks ma ur gonna make me blush
what bout u? u gonna 1 day be my suga mama?
She says:
haha u already do.. awww.. i would love to ur suga mamma if u be my sugga daddy
vince says:
thats whats up... u better be ready though. im on another leel than the busta u used to mess with
level*
She says:
im looking forward to that since u say your nothing like those kids i was with
vince says:
well dont get me wrong im still a kid in ways. i like playing freeze tag, monopoly. i was actually the 3rd grade world champion @ monopoly
She says:
haha awww.. always making me smile..like you know. i dont mind it .. i just want a real man when it comes to taking care of me
vince says:
i could do those things
She says:
i know u can.. you real.. and i love that. being real is the best way to get to me
vince says:
well u sayin im gettin to u?
She says:
hmm.. i would say that
vince says:
well i cant wait to see u. we'll have some fun
what do u like doin for fun?
She says:
aww cant wait to see you as well.. i love going to the movies and dinner
its my fav
vince says:
are u the type that gets all shy when eating in front of someone u hhave a crush on?
She says:
ummm... no i like to eat.
lol
why'
vince says:
cause it cracks me up when i see people all shy to eat.
i fuckin be tearin food up. and if like u dont finish ur food i'll srt8 rob ur plate
ill eat that too
She says:
haha oh hell no.. its on baby
vince says:
ahaha imma be fightin u for ur plate
but seriously though imma meat eater. if u got salads n shit then u might be sfae
She says:
haha i love salad w chiken so i might be safe lol
do u get mad when they pick at ur food just to try it
vince says:
no only u cant take like a million pieces. my sister used to do that. she'd try it and liked it alot so she'd just start eatin my shit. i'd be like WTF?!
She says:
haha so cute.. ok. cause i was seing this guy and like if we went out to the movies he would be like .. you get ur won popcorn and soda.. cause he didnt wanna share w me..
weirdo
vince says:
what? he dumb. if were eatin from the same popcorn we might touch hands... thats freaky
imma virgin by the way
She says:
lol aww baby... shut up no u aint
i seen your pics
in bed w girls
vince says:
in bed wit girls?!
what when'd u ssee that
She says:
i seen one in ur page
u were like.. why not
vince says:
i took that off a long time ago!
she was my friend
i've been saving myself 4 u
She says:
lol shut up... haha.. ur funny baby
vince says:
well we could share popcorn n straws n everything. it'll be the most romantic movie experience ever
u down wit that?
She says:
haha i love it.. yes lets do it. lets share everything and make it the most memorable night
vince says:
u like soure or sweet candy?
She says:
i like both wut bout u
vince says:
yeah i guess i lik both too. i'll either get zours or raisinets @ the movies
She says:
i like eating m'ms with popcorn
vince says:
u like eatin scary movies?
She says:
lol wut
ill watch a scary movie... just b prepared for me to jum on ya lol
vince says:
haha i jus read what i wrote!
well u kno what i meant
thats what im counting on... an excuse 4 u to get up on me
She says:
awww lol i love the idea
vince says:
honestly i dont think i've ever been more happy talkin about the moviies
She says:
really? me 2 .. im excited to go w you
vince says:
so dinner and a movie. i gotta let u kno though. in not too good at lookin @ a movie if i got u 2 look at instead
She says:
aww ur making me blush . i love it all
ur really making me happy right now
vince says:
my bad i'll stop
She says:
awww no dont
please

vince says:
well im jus sayin. we still got a long time to wait
i hate gettin wokre up for somethin just to have to wait on it
worked*
She says:
alright then. we will just wait till time passes and hopefully this all works out.. u just gotta have faith
vince says:
dont trip ma. i aint lettin u go
She says:
thats good to know cause im not letting u go
vince says:
if we see each other and cant stand it then i guess we'll split ways but 4 some reason i dont think thats gonna happen either
im pretty sure were gonna have a blast
She says:
yeah im sure of it 2... theres nothing that keeps me from wanting to see u
i have a feeling its gonna be really good
vince says:
ohh yea. wait? what u like drinkin?
She says:
im a real light weight lol ... it doesnt take much but i love Margaritas.. i know.. lol really gurly but i love em
vince says:
u know i dont think i ever really tried a margarita
only when i was little and got some off my mom
she used to get me drunk
She says:
well they r really goo.. youll like em. ur mom would get u drunk?
vince says:
yeah if i begged her. she's give me som liq when i was like 10
She says:
omg wow crazy
vince says:
it was fun. but imma let u go ok ma? i gotta whip this bod into shape
She says:
aww ok baby.. just hit me up when u get the chance k
be safe

I says:
bye ma
she says:
bye








from me: u should try to grow ur nails out. i kno its hard but i always loved them N i do got aim. i already added u but ur neva online. but my e-mail is XXXXXXXXXXXXXX


from her
yeah i know you aint gonna be here till september but that dont mean im not gonna wanna see you. and about the whole bf thing.. hmm.. im not really interested in anyone right now and im not really seing anyone. im just doing what i gotta go to keep up with life and having fun with my girls. i told you.. i need a real man, and not some dumb boy trying to pretend he can take care of me when he cant even take care of himself. everyone says that they are different than most but i guess your gonna have to see for yourself when you come down to visit. im glad life is good for you thats the way it should be and by the way.. im very proud of you for trying so hard in your life. i dont like people who just sit aroung and wait for something to happen in their life. I like a person who goes out there and gets it. haha i have the real nails but im thinking of geeting the fake ones.. not so sure lol i got my hair done this friday. im a blondy again lol it looks nice though.. youll see. ohhh.. so you were looking at my pics hu? Haha thanks sweety its all me. and for sure.. ill send some pics to you. i guess ill send em through myspace since you dont got aim. Haha ill have to take new pics then. ;P take care my love. keep your head up. and dont forget bout me. muahhh

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: me
Date: Apr 3, 2009 8:38 PM
Subject: RE: Re::

u know i told you that im not gettin back there till later in the year. prolly around september. my guy told me that by the time i get back there ur gonna have another boyfriend n u aint gonna wanna talk to me. i told him that even if u do gotta man ur gonna be sneakin away to see me? besides the party life is goin pretty good. im makin moves and all that shit. got ur toes n nails done huh? u got real nails or fake ones? well i was lookin @ ur pictures the other day n i gotta say i like what i see... u should send me some private ones

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: her
Date: Mar 28, 2009 2:01 PM
Subject: RE: Re::
my love
ahhh i miss you sweety. man its been so crazy for me lately. been so busy with school and work. i took my team out to SD for their competition and they won Frist place baby
im so proud of em. wow.. celebrety hu? haha look at you. im glad you had fun sweety as long as you safe. so hows life besides the party? anything new. today i went out to get my toes and nails done haha it was a day for myself. i deserved it after working so hard. when you coming to visit ps. u dont gotta worry.. i think bout you.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: me
Date: Mar 22, 2009 4:10 AM
Subject: RE: Re::

hey babe,
how was SD. its like 5am over there right now so ur prolly sleepin. this weekend was pretty crazy for me. i went out to this club in hiroshima and im used to being looked @ but this was a whole different story. i was like a celebrity in this place. we didnt get to the club till like 3 am cause the cars we were in the drivers accidentally put diesel gas in the gas tank so they both stopped working. we had to pay like $50 to get to the club from where we were stranded. so we partied till like 10am and finally i came back to my place and passed out. i just woke up a lil bit ago. and its aight ma im not worried about how long it takes u to reply. when u get to me, you get to me, i kno im on ur mind.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From her
Date: Mar 21, 2009 2:25 PM
Subject: RE: Re::

hey sweety sorry for taking so long to write back. ive been so busy with work and school latelu sucks but someones gotta do it. haha dont worry i wont beat you with stick.. ill beat you with kissys hehe how is everything and how you holding up? dont worry .. being married is far from my mind now that i got heart broken. im waiting for mister right to sweap me off my feet.... { your right.. my ex was lame } lol well tomorrow im heading out to SD so that should be fun for me. i just wanna relax and have a good time. be good out there and take care of yourself. call me up when you get the chance. ps. Im not a weak and willed chick. im that type of girl you can take home to meet mom and be proud of.

from – me:
I’ll let you train me but u cant go all crazy or anything… like u cant start hitting me with sticks if im not running fast enough? But yeah im willin to bet that ur ex was a lame. Why would I try to have a long distance relationship with a girl I didn’t wanna be with?! It doesn’t make sense. Well im glad that he’s out of ur life so I can get in it. U need to just forget about him and relax and have a good time. Next time I hear from you it better be about how much fun u had!!! N im glad ur stronger now cuz I don’t like weak-willed chicks

From her:

hahah im glad i can contribute to your running skills on the track. dont worry.. the more you do it the better youll get at it. Besides... im the best coach youll ever have so no worries haha
wow no text im sad.. but its ok i understand. you just get at me when you get the opportunity.
Im glad to hear your happy cause the truth is.. its all that matters. You gotta always look out for yourself because nobody else will. its a little harsh but you know how this world can be. sometimes we go into a relationship thinking we know the person and in return they end up hurting us the most. i should know.. been there and done that already. i know what you mean about being happier without her and stepping up because of it. i was so in love with my ex. and thought i would actually marry him.. he left to study and then got with someone else.. but the worse thing is that he tryed to hide it and still talk to me like if i was the only girl he wanted..
The game caught up to him and now im way better off without him. Dont ever let yourself be with someone who drags you down instead of lifting you up to greatness. I can honestly say that ive also stepped up because of it and im so thankful for it. Im way stronger than what i was and have made it way harder for people to hurt me. you know how that goes. but other than that.. im content for now. Ps. im glad i got to know you as well. :)keep your head up and enjoy life. :)hopefully some day i get to see you in person ..

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: me
Date: Mar 13, 2009 2:20 AM
Subject: RE: Re: RE:

all that talk about u runnin track got me back into runnin again. Im slow as hell though but its okay. I can let you train me right? i cant text either though ma... the phone i got all the buttons and everything is in japanese so i cant figure out how to work it! but i guess i'll just call you. but yeah you right.. im happy. i've been happy as fuck since i broke up with my girl like a year ago. That chick was bringin me down but i fell out wit her so i could fall in with a better person u feel me? i've stepped my shit up so much since then. now life is a blast!!! and now i know ur sexy ass too! what bout u ma... u happy?

From her
wow im so happy you coming back on the real..i cant wait to finally see you. hahah and yeah ill keep up the good work on staying in shape for you wow your own business.. im impressed.. what kind? and dont worry sweety. it will be ok.. you a smart man so i know you and your friend will come through. ive been good. just here trying to do the best that i can. working hard and going to school. im almost done with my AA. Hopefully i get it in June. after that ill be ready to start my BA. tired of all these lil boys who try to be with me and dont even know how to treat a lady... but you know how that is. but im strong. independant woman so im good. dont got to worry bout silly things. its crazy but i miss you. you take care of yourself and come back when you can. im here if you need to talk to someone when you stress out. heres my number.. just in case. XXX_XXX_XXXX Ps. keep your head up

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: me
Date: Mar 7, 2009 12:17 AM
Subject: RE:

im getting back in june so its not that much longer baby. well im glad ur keeping in tip top shape for me haha im good though. workin is stressin me out cause me n my boy are starting our own business but i gotta make that paper. how u been?

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: her
Date: Mar 2, 2009 9:09 PM
Subject: RE:

when u coming over here with me.. hmmm been working this body out on the track. thats what its been doing :)how are you?

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: me
Date: Mar 2, 2009 3:00 AM
Subject: RE:

Whats up baby. I'm good. I just got back to Japan today. What u and that body been up to?

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: her
Date: Feb 23, 2009 11:15 AM

hey you,
miss ya sweety. hope you alright.

SHE DOESN’T ANSWER!!!!

from - me
Well I work out so I can put u in those flexible positions

From - her
well i love dancing ima be a dance teacher some day and i go to school to become a kindergarden teacher. i work at a high school where im a dance coach. im very flexible what about you?

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: me
Date: Jan 21, 2009 8:56 PM


so u got any skills talents or abilities i should know about?

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: her
Date: Jan 21, 2009 11:21 PM
awww so sweet. yes please, i want you all in one pice
ill def. be ready for when you come back and cant wait till i finally get to see you

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: me
Date: Jan 21, 2009 7:15 PM

yeah i'll be careful so that i can get sent back 2 u in good condition... u gonna be gettin ready for me 2 come back?

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: her
Date: Jan 16, 2009 12:57 AM

haha sounds fun.. just be safe. wouldnt want anything to happen to you :)hmmm.. another year.. its all good.. time goes by fast.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: me
Date: Jan 15, 2009 9:54 PM

ive been partyin like crazy! im not gonna be back in america for a year though

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: her
Date: Jan 16, 2009 12:49 AM

yeah i think i will so what u been up to.. when you heading over to my parts

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: me
Date: Jan 15, 2009 9:44 PM

its crazy ma. try it sometime...

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: her
Date: Jan 16, 2009 12:43 AM

just here at my house.. wow japan wish i was there.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: me
Date: Jan 15, 2009 9:30 PM

whats good mama. im good. chillin in japan right now. U?

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: her
Date: Jan 16, 2009 12:18 AM

hey sexy
hope your alright
SHE NEVER ANSWERS

from me: well imma be out there on XXXXX at club XXXXXX you should see if u can visit.

from her:
yes sir...
hmm yeah i think ima go next week

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: me
Date: Dec 9, 2008 7:34 AM

A dance teacher huh? What kinda dancing do u teach?? Do u ever go to Mexicali?

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: her
Date: Dec 8, 2008 10:07 PM

hmm well lets see... im about to turn 20.
im a student at XXX. im about to graduate with my AA
in lyberal studies.
i work at a high school as a dance teacher.
I dont have a man,
and love to have some fun in my life.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: me
Date: Dec 8, 2008 8:58 PM

damn tell u about myself... well shit where do i start. Number #1 im in the marines.. i hate it but i gotta let u kno from the jumpoff. i have a fucked up memory so i dunno if i've ever seen u. U ever go to mexicali cause im out there with my boys alot. Umm what else. Im 21, and no i dont have a lady. I just like kickin it and chillin u kno? livin the high life mama. what about urself?

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: her
Date: Dec 7, 2008 10:57 PM
im good just here at my casa

so tell me a little bit about yourself? if you dont mind.

i think ive seen you but i dont know.

from - me
Good thank u n you

From – her
) hi. how are you

From: ME
Date: Dec 2, 2008 10:02 PM
Thanks for the request chula