i defintily dont like that advice. you need to keep in mind that this girl iss busy and might not have a lot of time. She gave you a txt full of IOIs and apologized for not answering. I say stick it out youve got nothing to lose at this point.

so i've been texting this girl for a while now, getting more personal etc..she's been investing and qualifying herself etc..so it's been going pretty well.

Saturday (midnight) i get a text from her
HB10: "So, i'll def be coming to Chicago in two weeks!"

I didn't reply since i was out and didn't wanna reply right away, so i'll reply in the morning. But what should i reply with??


THanks

IMO (again) your still showin alot of interest so she might be thinking, 'oh no not this guy again'. don't text her again for 3/4 days and see if she texts you during that time, if she does, its an IOI, if she doesnt....there could be several reasons.

i think she's not picking up when you call because you havn't spent enough time building comfort over text, which takes alot of texting, i'd say at least over 100 texts, maybe more depending on the girl.

also, when you decide to ring her again after texting, in your last text or few tell her ther's somethings important you can only do over the phone or in person etc so she'll want to know what it is and is therefore more likely to pick up. if she keeps saying 'just tell me know' just reply with something like 'you obviously don't care what i have to say' or 'nope, you have to hear the way i say it'. when you do ring her, she'll ask what it was...either make sumin up or do what i do just go 'i just wanted to say hi' they usually laugh or sound a bit bummed and after there little reply say 'well now i've done that i guess there's no point still talking' you can either 1. wait for her response and go from there asd she might be like 'stay an chat' or 2. hang up pretty abruptly and don't text her for another 2/3 days as she will be thinkin of you and how puzzling the phone call was.

this works 9/10 times for me, innfact its only failed twice outa god knows how many times. and obviously coz im a teen, i know all about the texting stuff seeing as its all we do.

anyone PM me for help and i'll be happy to answer/deal with your problems

-teen

so, after her "so i'll be def in the city in 2 weeks" we've been texting. she's been qualifying, we've been building comfort etc...her texts are more and more personal and longer. so i have a week and a half to her actually coming to the city.

How do i ask her to meet me in a bar/club?
how do i plan this out so it doesn't look like i'm chasing her etc.

i would say, how'd you like to grab a coffee (or whatever)....she should say yes, if not, don't be persistant.
when your at the place, say i've gota pick sumin up from mine, lets go. make it so that she will defo go with you!
once back at your place, run either the photo routine or any routine that is suitable, and dont forget to pick up your thing you forgot, make sure its something peacocky to grap her attention and as a bit of a tlking point.

after you've got your item. tell her you've got a crank in your neck and ask her to massage it. if she does, offer to do hers to return the favour. while doing it, pull her hair firmly but not to hurt her (apparently is stimulates the want for sex, dont know how, but it works).
if she responds well to it (ie. if she doesnt go 'what the FUCK!!! :@!!!' then try biting her neck and again, it stimulates the drive for sex so if she responds well... start to kiss it then move around to the front and work the magic....

-teen (i'm young, but have plenty of knowledge and experience)

Hey man this may go against PUA protocol but dont blow her off until you have no other choice....Just go after her.....Def take some of the advice but dont give up and FOR THIS REASON ONLY:

I try to use every interaction as a LEARNING EXPERIENCE, both good and bad. Therefore, I do my best to have no fear and try some shit. If it doesnt work and she completely blows me off, then I learn from my mistakes and game up the next HB and refine my tactics the next time.

Blowing HB's off just because she isnt answering your texts as often as you'd like, IMO, is for when you really have your PUA game down and can afford to do so.

Until then, if not for anything else, keep pursuing her for the LEARNING EXPERIENCE. Ive had some successful results when I just wing it sometimes. Women arent these mechanical straight line thinking machines like PUA stuff may lead you to think. Its going off generalizations (which are much more often true then not ) but it can never account for any exceptions or stipulations. Therefore, if you start to get a lil off track, dont get flustered, fight until the end anyway. There's no point in walking away cuz u fuck up a line, phone call, whatever....You got this far...get the most you can out of it.

I think the biggest prob we must overcome is the fear of making a mistake. Dude, just say to yourself fuck it and fire away. Even if you fail, you'll come away w/ much more valuable experience than any PUA book can tell you.

And if im not mistaken, pretty much EVERY single PUA has the same underlying point. We are our own worst enemies. Fear is ultimately what we must overcome. So fire away and its the only way you'll learn.

To be more specific to your situation, I think the girl is a bit into you but she's playing a lil hard to get and prob is legitimately busy. Either way, you wont know until you try. Again, dont be afraid to fuck up. Its the only way you will truly master this PUA stuff.

good post hypnotix.

plus she could just generally busy and she has apologised for not returning calls/texts

so go for it! and don't think loads about it when you meat, let it flow freely while thinkin, 'fuck it, if she dont like me its her loss and i can go sarge elsewhere' etc

keep trying dude so that you'll be able to post a feild report...maybe even a lay report

-teen