When using kino, I'm not sure what to do about eye contact in a face-to-face conversation. Do you keep looking at her eyes or look at the spot you're about to touch? I'm wondering in case you accidently touch something you didn't mean to. Would looking where you're about to touch give you away at all?

I tend to keep eye contact when I'm doing something like touching her elbow, hands, or even face. I think looking into her eyes is a good indicator of how comfortable she is with it.

I'm not sure that this is important for her, so do whatever's comfortable for you.

If you're grabbing things you shouldn't be, or can't gauge her comfort by touch alone, than looking at her (not staring/gazing at her) might be a good idea. Remember, you're just trying to create comfort, not a "moment".

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Girls generally like eye contact, because it shows that you are listening or at least pretending too. I know for myself and I am sure most guys, it is hard to do when your in a club full of girls with low cut shirts. But if they didn't want you too look, they wouldn't wear it. It also helps to make the conversation a bit more deeper, especially if you are confident to look them in the eyes sternly. Try looking in her right eye with your right eye, supposedly that helps build attraction.

As far as kino goes, you shouldn't be thinking about where too touch to much. Just let it be natural. If you are talking, it might be hard to hear things, so lean in close and put your hand on her shoulder to pull her close so she can talk in your ear. The more comfortable she gets with you the more kino can come into play and the more accepting she will be. Just don't go grabbing for her tits and ass.

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I said the same thing in a post a few days ago and was corrected. Leaning into a set or into someone is bad. If you can pull her into you while you lean away or stand up straight, that's probably better.

I still do the lean-in thing (some puas call it "pecking"), but it's on my list of things to work on.

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