If you are seeing a girl and you are the one who always calls or text and makes plans....and she never makes an effort then would you just stop calling or talking to her until she contact you? I have no talked to this girls for two days because I got tired of doing all the works and in my eyes if she wants it to work then she need to put in some work....she seems to like head games so lets see what happens....

In my opinion:

If you're seeing a girl, i.e. you've seduced her before then the calling should be equal, if possible her just a bit more.

If you haven't seduced her yet, providing you haven't spent an ice age with her you should be the one calling and leading. It may never happen otherwise.

Of course you have to calibrate each situation and take it on a case by case basis but those are my ideas.

I have known her for about a month now....been dating her and we have slept togeather so ye we are deff dating.

My whole thing is that I put so much more into it then she does right now....If she really likes me she should put in some effort and at this point im not sure that she is as serious as I am. Now I like her alot! I could see her as a gf and the old me of 2 years ago would have called her a 100 times by now haha but now Im just thinking fuck it if she doesnt want to put in any effort then why should I???? I like her alot! but there are billions of women out there and its her lose correct?

Iduno what do you guys think.

I think it will actually be your loss. Because of your mindset. For the love of Mickey's, I hope you haven't layed it out to her like you did you us! I think it would look horrible. AFC type of thing.

Look,, I can see that you are one swell guy, but I think you mismanaged this whole thing. No prob,, happens to the best of us. Dating is a give and take, push and pull kind of thing. YOu push her away, she draws near, you pull back etc, etc etc. But you broke that play by always being the one who calls. So dont do that next time.

In this case, I would not say a thing to her about it. That would make you look lame. Just don't call. ANd don't have an attitude about it, getting upset will ruin it. Bad vibes. Just don't call. Wait till she calls. Than next time you call her. She calls you. then maybe her again. It's like training a dog, do it slow and make it fun and positive.

If she doesn't call you fine. Get her out of your brain. Right now she is running the show and you do not want that.

Good luck Bro!