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| Mind Hacker | PostPosted: Sun Mar 29, 2009 10:50 pm | |
Joined: Sun Jan 11, 2009 1:54 pm Posts: 633 | | So, you've got the girl's phone number, you call her to set up day 2 and she says she can't on the weekend, but it can be during the week.
When she suggested we should meet during the week instead, I had these options:
1) Say "so, what about Wednesday?"
2) Say "Ok. I'll call you so we set it up."
3) Say "Ok. Call me so we set it up."
I did 3. Good or bad? Why?
From my way of viewing it, if I did 1 I would act needy. If I did 2 would look like I'm chasing her. So, I did 3.
Another question: Should I be texting her during the weekend to let her thinking about me? Or should I just not contact her until she calls me?
BTW... I did not contact her yet and expect her to call me tomorrow.
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| Mind Hacker | PostPosted: Mon Mar 30, 2009 11:26 am | |
Joined: Sun Jan 11, 2009 1:54 pm Posts: 633 |
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| Sparrowort | PostPosted: Mon Mar 30, 2009 1:46 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Mar 29, 2009 2:51 pm Posts: 22 | | I would give her a couple of times you're free (makes it sound like you have a lot of shit on) if she's unavailable get her to call you, and perhaps give her a time constraint eg 'yeah sure but i can only come out for a couple of hours i have to take a bath later and my light globes need changing' - if you want to f-close go the opposite - 'sure but i have to take a bath and change my light globes so i won't be available until 7'.
this is what i'd do, and I'm no PUA, so take it on face value. _________________ Without an ethos, a philosophy; life is meaningless and we are destined to float in a meaningless vat of mental decay.
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| Ezo | PostPosted: Mon Mar 30, 2009 3:03 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator |  | Joined: Sun Nov 11, 2007 2:04 pm Posts: 4238 |
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| Jprime | PostPosted: Mon Mar 30, 2009 4:14 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Jan 20, 2009 2:31 am Posts: 12 | | i wouldve given available times, but let her be the one to call me and set it up, tell her im busy this week but maybe ill be able to pencil her in. if she doesnt call to set anything up then just go out and grab more numbers lol. 6.4 billion ppl!
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