now this girl for a few weeks, she came up to me while i was eating food, and was interested in why out of all the people you eat lots of food, we chatted for a bit, after i finished got her facebook and invited her over for salsa dancing which i do recreationally, and later on her #. Invite her over to salsa we have a good time.

Didn't call her for till the end of the next week. The following week again i phoned her again to go out with some friends leaving a message, still nothing.

My friends colleagues invite us to a house party, and when we get there i see her there. We hit it off again, she tells me why she has been distant from so many people etc, i was like okay. I then just proceed to talk with her occasionally, most of the night i go and chat with other folks i didnt know, i'm quite sociable. She says for us to hang out, i go sounds like a plan.

I call her the following week, and she invites me over to a houseparty. Which was a horrible experience, which just ended up not many ppl coming over (she felt bad) just a few couples came, and a guy that already had a connection with her, seeing them kiss. I just left upset.

Where i'm from in brazil this would almost never happen.

*cough* get over it *cough* - if it were me, I'd say I read the situation incorrectly, and she was more into a friendship than a hook up. It happens to all of us. You can either bring your game and try and get her, which could be a massive waste of time you don't know how she feels for this other chump, or you can move on and go for someone else.

I would do the latter, with 2.8 million girls in my city, I can't really be bothered with girls who have lovers/boyfriends - fuck sloppy seconds.

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