=== 3 SECOND K-Close ===

source: http://www.dallaspua.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=166
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I had talked about this before, briefly with a few PUAs. Since then things have popped in my mind to allow for further light to be shed on how this works....

Now reading various PUA methods and the psychology behind meeting girls, I can't but help to analyze my past successes. One of which I shall call the 3-second rule on steroids.

There have been a several times where, while walking across a crowded room, I was able to make eye contact with a random girl, maintain it as we approach, and just kiss here. I have never failed with this (except one time in London that the girl was quickly pulled away by her friend - darn obstacles!)

I think I have figured what was going through both our subconscious for this 3-second kiss opener to work. The following were the same for each of my experiences (except for London - but I will get to that).

Ensure the stage is as follows:
1) Crowded room (you cant avoid rubbing other shoulders as you walk)
2) Girl must be alone (or in back of friends where they do not have time to cock-block)
3) Girl must be approaching you
4) You must be approaching the girl
5) Initial eye contact should take place when she is 5 feet away

Follow these steps:
1) Eye Contact. Eye contact establishes the initial IOI. But it must be held on the approach. Uninterested girls would look away. You will know when she is interested or not.
2) Both of you should approach each other. An initial "Hi" said in a slow, seductive way might be said (I think I did some times).
3) Triangulate - look at her mouth, then at her eyes, then back at the mouth. then......
4) Go in for the kiss.

Viola, easy as that! Now why does it work? Glad you asked

Here is my analysis.

- Paradoxically, the ultra crowded room provides isolation. None of her friends can see her, and thus judge her. Random people do not know her. So she is safe from judgement.

- Girl must be alone or in back where friends may just walk away without notice. Again isolation.

- Maintaining eye contact and facial expressions provide strong IOI. Your subconscious should be able to analyze her facial features, eye contact, blah, blah, and give you the "feeling" you can kiss her. Heck, PUA's should know consciously.

- I now recall (as I think more about it) saying a brief "Hi" in a slow, seductive way before closing in. Then you go in for the kiss. This lets you shows interest in here and gives your intentions.

- Triangulate. Look at mouth then back at her eyes. She knows that it means you want to kiss.

- Finally, I must admit, a few beers probably came into the situation on both sides. Simply lowering inhibitions. Also, it allowed me not to over analyze and let my subconscious mind analyze the entire situation in a blink second, and letting me know, go for it. Which reminds me of a good book, called "Blink" I just read a few books before "The Game". It tells how people use the subconscious to make intelligent decisions for complicated problems in a blink of an eye.

The only time it didn't work was with a girl in London. As we approach, our eyes locked, and going in for the kiss, from out of nowhere her friend pulled her away. The room was not as crowded as when it was successful, allowing her friend to see the situation and "save" her from a very passionate kiss

Oh well. Her loss


P.S.
After the kiss, we simply departed and went our ways. No talk. The subconcious possibly saving us from an awkward conversation. What do you talk about after a random kiss? Gee, the weather is nice...

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I am kinda skeptical. I mean I have never seen it in action, so you can't blame me.

Man, this can actually happen. I have seen people giving randome kisses and getting away with it.

I was once at a bus which takes about 16 hours to get to its destiny.
I had this cute girl seated beside me. I didn't even say hi to her. At around 2am the bus is all dark and I wake up. I just began to kiss her (we were sleeping facing each other) and she responded great and I grabbed and sucked her tits and it was awesome. Next morning she didn't even say hi or anything and left like nothing.

What was that??

P.S This is actually true.

Well I need to see it. I dont know if I could try it.... maybe I will have too

I had written up a more thorough description of this technique at mASF. I think this thread should be under Openers and Conversational Skills forum. So I reposted the mASF thread here: here-vp5028.html#5028

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Hi,

It never happened to me like u describe, but instead to kiss directly i ask them (with the same voice tone as u would ask for the time for example, completely relaxed) if they want to spend some time kissing (and petting) with me.

Theres a spanish word called "rollo" ( "te apetece enrollarte conmigo?") i cant translate but it means something like kissing+petting.

It work well a few times. I also had bad reactions, but the possibility is there, just try.
The last time it worked was while closing a club. Maybe she was little drunk like me, loud music,.... Her answer was: "w8 a sec", talked to her friends came back and said "ok". We sit on a big couch and started kissing... when music turned off and lights on, we only said "goodbye and nice to meet you".

So, i belief in fast-kissing method ^^.


Tyson.

This happened to me aswell. I was telling my mate bout the game by style (i had only recently come across the concept of pickup and had only read afew chapters) and he was skeptical like show me. as we were walking through the packed dance floor to leave the club i got major eye contact from a girl and cracked a smile, she instantly smiled back so i started dancing toward her. 5 seconds later her tounges down my throat. I told her i would be right back then left cos i couldnt be assed. lol!

This is a foolsmate and really does depend on the girl. Basic things to look out for are solid eye contact, as soon as you get that smile and if she smiles back in the right way (and you will know what i mean if she does) then go for it. watch body language too.