So I have been gaming for about 6+ months now and its been pretty smooth transition because I already had a personality that allowed me to talk to random people, just not getting dates however. Anyway this weekend I was out with this girl I'm working on who is older then me (Im 22 and shes 29) and we decide to extend our night and go out to the local bars. So I decide to go to my favorite bar first and just happen to run into my friends, which honestly couldn't have worked out any better cause now I can DHV. One of the guys in my group is a natural and is a guy that can honestly get whoever he wants with his looks too and I was worried when he asked how we knew each other but then I showed that I was interested in this chick and he backed off and actually hyped me to her throughout the night. But then my other friend(guy I considered one of my best)later asked how we knew each other and decided to miss my hints and was flirting with her. So I just do what I normally do and act like its not making me jealous and I hit on another girl to make her jealous and to show that she can be replaced easily. It seemed to work ok but my friend persisted and this is not the first time he's done this to me. So normally I make the other guy DLV himself somehow but I am not gonna do this with my friends because I always hype my friends and say how cool they are. So my question is how do you deal with a friend like this? Ive told him its not cool to try and game the same chick and to back off but he doesnt seem to get it. I would consider him good with girls and good looking so its not like he can't find another chick.

so your delima is to make her want you and focus on you.your friend obviously is into this girl.just pull him aside and this sounds weird but neg him in front of her say "can you be a little more discreet about tryin to get in this girls panties."she'll hear this.be shocked.If he does continue to hit on her he will always be thinking about your comment.she will be too.in turn she will be saying to herself im not just a one night stand and will eventually move onto another guy hopefully that guy is you.great thing to do is say is "lets dance."If she declines. neg her by saying"always thought i was a better dancer then you".lets assume the worst and maybe she says"probably" Then get a girl to dance with you.since she probably has glanced at you dancing with this girl.Approach her and introduce her to your new friend.whatever the next song is say I love this song.lean into whisper in her ear and say please come and dance with me.i definatly hate using please or sorry when talking or excuse me because it seems kinda like your desperate if you use please.as if your begging , but in this context i havent had a bad response from it.she will be a willing participant.Make her feel like shes going on an adventure with you.I sometimes say "get off your heiny and shake it".Just fyi don't use this line i'd like to keep it in my arsenal.Often it will make them blush.If the other girl is to clingy say"im going to take a breather.I feel generous so i'll give you one more dance."if she says something bitchy give her a double neg and don't say anything else.turn to your real prospect and say " i was getting very weird vibes from her.did you feel that.Do not say "what do you think"for two reasons sometimes it could be a quick yes or no answer.and second women are not logical.they go on their feelings about things.so its good to say "did you feel that." then pick up on what she says and start going into some threading and go back and fourth.On another plus the other girl will see you chatting with her and it will make her jealous and this will make it easier to close with the digits of the other girl.simple little routine and the out come is very good.hope this helps.