is asking a girls for feedback on your game worth it ?
if so how would you put it across?



thanks, Dappah

Good point bro!

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I have no input, but am looking forward to the replies!

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Absolutely!

Dont give away the fact that your gaming though would be my advice, ive got shot down like that more than once. Asking something like "what was it that made you feel attracted to me in the first place" on a date is a cocky and good way to get feedback though. It'll show youre confident in yourself to.


Another one thats helped me a few times is "You know, i've heard an average girl at your age gets approached 10 times a day by strangers of the opposite gender... Doesnt that suck?" with a smile of course

Whatever she says you answer... "wow... so what do they miss that i hit spot on?" with yet another big smile of course.

She is going to think about just what you have done right and wrong over the begining stages of you building comfort together, so make sure to ask, letting her vent it will also give her the chance to belive in the fact that she is genuinly attracted to you and your qualities.


Hope this helps,
Swing

Oh fuck yea!, ask a girl how your game is. Theres nothing better than finding out FIRST HAND what your mistakes are. Just be sure not to try and hook up with her. But yea, I ve even asked girls what i should do to improve my appearance, its great, you may think you look good, but you never really know for sure until you ask a few girls.

IDK why youd ask about it when you can just sit silent and watch if the chick is responding to you or not..simple yes im doing it or no im way off.

Never underestimate the value of a girls opinion.

Nobody understands chicks better than other chicks. The best example i can think of this is Girl Coding It's something every girl does and most of the time guys don't pick up on it. Thats why whenever i go out I always have a female friend with me for two reasons, one to DHV, and two I ask them to point out any girl who is girl coding so I can step in and rescue them (nothing works better than saving a girl in need ;D)

I've wound up in the just friends zone many times and although it's not as good a being a boyfriend those girls are always best to talk to about your game. They think its funny and it's always an interesting conversation lol.

Personally I'd have to disagree with the general point made here. While it never hurts to hang out with girls and learn the occasional thing from them I don't think any girl can give you solid universal information on what girls in general want, for the simple fact that so many of them don't even know what they truely want themselves! Society has influenced and conditioned them to tell them what they think they want.


As for the original post I don't think it's necessary to ask for a girl's feedback on your game. You live and you learn. If you're not achieving what you set out to do then it's pretty clear that either you're setting unrealistic goals or more likely doing something wrong, rather than risk asking a girl how your game is take a step back and evaluate the problem then tackle it head on! You got her number but she keeps flaking? - You haven't built enough attraction with her (or you pissed her off ) You get shot down before you've even opened your mouth? - Work on your inner game and outter appearance.

And so and and so fourth.

If you can't appear to find the problem and/or the solution then post it up on here, there's always somebody around to help