I like a few of the baristas that work at another coffee shop I hang out at. This isn't really an opening, but could probably turn into one. I posted an ad on CL missed connections about myself:

"You're always at ... doing the crossword. You look just like [appropriate sex symbol]. You must be taken. If wasn't already seeing someone, I'd totally show you a wild time. "

The point is to. DHV by presenting yourself women find sexy... Sexier than their boyfriends. Use the name of the cafe in the header to increase the odds of it being seen. DO NOT BRING IT UP YOURSELF. I knew it would be seen since I know the baristas their check missed connections as a "guilty pleasure".

When they bring it up, just act casual and continue on like you're neither too flattered or embarressed. If the barista you want brings it up transition into a routine. This worked for me because I live in a small city and am a regular known by name at most cafes I go to. Even though an obstacle brought it up I know word will get around. Women are more apt to find a man sexy who their peers do. I think this a good preroutine DHV. Any suggestions or similar approaches?

Apologies for spelling and grammar issues. On an iPhone. Thanks.

Wow. Like a half dozen *females* have approached me over the last few days asking if I've seen this. One of them is going to meet me for coffe this week. I'm taking her interest in meeting me for coffee as well as her approach as IOIs. She is srsly cute.

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Damn. Now I'm inspired. I may even post a clever missed connection about her on CL and work it into my routine when we meet for coffee. I am finding that part of creating fantasy role plays with women is making an inside joke only the both of you get then building off of it.

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My self esteem went through the roof, man I got my swag. -- Jay-Z