Brief Story: About 5 days ago, I joined a social networking site like facebook or myspace. I added this random girl, HB7.5. She then messages me. This is our whole conversation so far (& it's all through messages). I blocked the names for some privacy.

HB7.5
nice meeting you! Wondering where you're originally from?

PUA
haha you didn't give me your name yet? im ___... im originally from ___. how about yourself?

HB7.5
oppzz.. sorry, lol . My name is ___. Cool to know you're pino ^_^. i'm originally from ___. not sure if you ever heard of that country? by the way, nice name ___!

PUA
nice to meet you ___. I know that's short for somehing. All ___ people have long ass name (pardon my french). Yes, I heard of it. I have close friends who's from there. Thanks! Did you grow up there or here? Actually, I think you're online right now. Wanna just chat?

HB7.5
cool! glad to hear that you have some ___ close friends! i bet you are pretty good in french..lol..i grew up in ___. and you? oh..sorry about last night.. i didn't realize that you were online too. maybe we chat next time!

PUA
nah, i only speak french when i try to make an expression . speaking of french, you speak spanish & thai? you must be smart i was born in the ___ and moved here when I was almost nine yrs old. are you the one in those pics? you look like you model... or you just like to pose for the camera.

HB7.5
ah... ic
oh.. yes.. i speak ___, thai, and still learning more espanol....Hmm.... maybe you are smarter because french is harder. . wow...actually you've been here longer than you were in the ___. All your family are here? yup, i'm the one in those pics. i sometime do modeling for my little brother art-work. i'm not that pretty like a model but do it just for a bonus.^^ and yeah you can tell that i like to pose for the camara too. . if you don't mind to visit this link... www._________

PUA
no, my dad & younger sister is over there and my mom & brother is over here. it didn't workout between them (parents) when we all moved here. how about yours? yea i don't think you're pretty and I should posed with you for your brother's art-work so that there's actually someone who looks good in the pictures haha im just teasing. No but I think you're cute. And we should pose for the camera together just for fun- I like posing myself, especially when I was younger (see pics). The paintings are very nice- he made all of them?

HB7.5
awww.. sorry to hear that. we all came here together back in 1997 (parents, 2 brothers and 2 sister and I ).
LOL.. you're so funny. hey.. that's not a bad idea that we should pose together so that I look prettier.. so are you trying to say that you're now getting older?? JP Oh.. thanks for your compliment!.. yes.. all are his works.. Thanks again. hmm.. wondering why you are still up this late?

PUA
I think we we're just suppose message each other and not chat at all. lol, i went to a chat and it told me i can invite you? idk... are you the fourth child/the middle one?-->im good at guessing, but dont tell me if im wrong tho lol... cute hahaha, make you look prettier? you dont need to I think we should hangout, you seem like a fun chick. Do you like to go to the movies?

HB7.5
Sorry ___, I dont' have aol. Do you have msn instead? That would be nice if you did. OMG, you're so good at guessing! Yup, I'm the fourth child. Oh yeah, I can be fun and I can be serious sometime It's been a long time I haven't gone to the movies lol. That would be a great idea for us to hang out someday. Oh, by the way, what kind of movie do you enjoy the most? Don't tell me if it's a horror one..

PUA
yea i do but not sure how to use it haha lol, in case you need this ___@___mail.com. I forgot to tell you I'm a psychic so next time you want to know your future (especially if it's with me ) just let me know. I'm just messing I'm not a psychic, just a good guesser. No movies? You must have a boring life jk. What do you do to burn time or what are your hobbies? Don't tell me if it's dirty [smiley face w/halo sign-the innocent smiley face]. No, I'm not so into horror. If I watch a horror flick, I need to be with somebody so they can hold me hahaha... I enjoy movies that teaches a lesson but comedies, romance, or action are good.

HB7.5
LOL.. you're funny __. I like to hang out with friends and singing karaoke ( don't have good voice but love it). I meant my good friend and I like to watch movies at home instead of going to the movie theater. You know why? ... well, because I sometime fall asleep on the movies.. lol ..JK . Cool, you and I enjoy the same type of movies. Oh, I forgot to mention one of my other hobies would be....(never mind since you told me not to tell)..

I wasn't gonna post this on here but you guys have help me a lot maybe you can learn a thing or two from my conversation. Plus, I need some feebacks/advice what to write back. Hopefully within the 10-12 hours!

So I will reply to my own post-- nice. I thought I keep you guys posted about what happened. I #-closed. This is how it all happened.

PUA
Thanks! I am more but you'll just have to find out! Woah woah, your friend and you? Someone in the picture? You should've told me. I don't like to hit on girls who's already taken-- not anymore at least hahaha.

Anyway, I don't think I'm hitting on you, I think you're hitting on me. I tell you, I am not that easy. So you like to sing eh? (I like to sing myself). Now you got to give me your number and let me hear you sing. I'm curious even if you don't have a good voice. "You and I enjoy the same type of movies?"-- You got to buy me a drink first before you hit on me like that. (I drink casually, not heavy).

PUA (she didn't respond for a day, that night went clubbing & told her what happened---DHV story SUNDAY 430AM)
Forget about the drink. I don't think I'll ever drink at club/lounge type bar. I just came from K Street Lounge from DC about couple hours ago and I'm disappointed at myself. There was a few cute girls checking me out (I'm not bragging just telling you a story behind me never drinking again) and I didn't approach them. Some of them got closer to me but I still didn't make a move. One of them actually approach and started dancing with me, she was all over me telling me to grind but stupid me was not in the mood. (I was in the mood for drinking because all the guys I came with before we go in the lounge were like “we're all going to get drunk” so my mentality was let’s get drunk). So when she tried dancing with me, I was like “I’m not drunk yet” which was bad because I think it may be made her think she’s not good enough. But she was actually cool with it because she was like here drink my drink even though I already have a drink on my hand. So I did, how it all end up wasn’t smooth or at least nice. It wasn’t fun, so I am never drinking again. I don’t normally drink to have fun. I have fun regardless.

Hopefully you don't get jealous, you'll get your turn. Hopefully you don't get mad, we're not on yet.

HB7.5 (Sunday 732AM)
I meant one of my pina friend. LOL... So.. you've learned your lesson huh. That's good. because at least you tried and you then can decide whether you want to do it or stay away from it. Remember not to let your friends influence you in a bad way. It's nice to hear that you just drink casually. Hmmm... now you made me want to find out more about you! That would nice for you to hear my ugly voice, and so I can hear your voice, too..^_^

HB7.5 (Sunday 740AM- she message another one after 8 mins)
That's a lot more to talk about.. to find out more about each other. Hey, thanks for telling me about last night story. I'm glad that you just drink casually. How could I get mad at someone who doesn't do any wrong to me? So, don't worry. The most important thing is that you are being honest! There's so many things to talk about, but I don't think everything will fit in this page. hehe.. So, it's better to give you my number-- XXX-XXX-XXXX-- if I am not able to pick up the phone, feel free to leave a voice message.

PUA (Sunday 3PM)
Yea, I'm a very honest type of guy-- I'm very straightforward. I like you already-- it seems like you're drama free. Right now, I have to attend an emergency business trip won't be back Thursday. I'll see if I can call you or go online. But I doubt it. It's an intense business trip. You will have to hear my sexy voice later.

HB7.5 (Sunday 6PM)
Cool! Glad to hear that! Well, have a save trip! I look forward to hearing from you sometime. Take care. ^^



So it's Thursday 1245AM, not sure what to do with her next. I'm pretty sure I will come up with something later but it'll be interesting if you guys respond and give me a few pointers what I should do next.

I'm new to the online sarging thing, but I like what you've done. I'm learning from you you don't happen to be Lao are you. Just curious because of all this pino-thai talk in the convo. lol.

My suggestion is moving on and setting up an activity with her. You really don't need myspace anymore. You can move on to phone, text-games, etc. Just treat her as you would any girl you number closed in during the day, night and so forth.

just my two cents

No, I'm the filipino. She's the Lao. We ended up watching a movie last friday 3-27. After the movie, we just chilled in her car because it was already midnight and I didn't know the area too well (watched a movie near her place). She was kino-escalating me the whole time lol but I didn't go for the kiss because I got the vibe that she has a boyfriend even though she said no the first few times when I asked her if she had a boyfriend. Then I guess I bugged her enough and she said kinda (I guess her and her boyfriend are not that close). I didn't want her to cheat on him so I didn't make any moves. You might think, I'm gay for doing that but I'm not. I've stolen guys' girlfriends before and it hasn't workout. I've also made a girl cheat on his bf before--that too didn't workout well. I did those things in my younger years thinking to see whether I have game or not. Also just a week ago, one of my friend told me how his girl cheated on him. I felt bad for him and saw the boyfriends or exboyfriend's point of view in that type of situation.

This whole PUA materials shouldn't be for stealing girlfriends but for good guys to learn to approach and keep a girl interested in finding more about them and not just judge a guy base on his looks.