hey,

first post...not really a newbie...just been busy

have got a little bit stuck though....

normally i use the same game and tactics and everything is cool. Then i met Karen...

she's different from any girl i've ever met before. we've been dating/ sleeping together for 5-6 weeks and she's crazy (admittedly part of the attraction) - she'll go off to weekend raves and not sleep and i'll not hear from her for several days. She flirts with all sorts of guys and we have no formal commitment to each other so she could be sleeping with them too.. i can't hold that against her as i have been doing the same.

For anyone who has ever seen 'mad love'. she reminds me of the Drew Barrymore character.

so now i'm thinking about escalating things into a relationship but I have no idea how to handle her as i haven't been in this situation before.

any advice?

Oh thats tough man. Your going to have to tame the party animal inside her. I personally wouldn't move it into a relationship, but you if you want go for it. Start acting like more of a boyfriend by seeing her more than once a week. That's all i got

I recently lost a wild child, Cant tell you what to do but I can tell you what NOT to do. Dont tell her she shouldnt get fucked up all the time. Dont joke about how she maybe sleeping around. Dont try to explain you dont want her to OD. Dont try to explain she is going to die soon. Pretty much let her do her thing. You must give her serious space. Apparently I came across too much like her dad. lol. She was a crazy beotch! but like you said, there is always a lot of attraction. Good luck bro! Let me know if you crack the code. They are tricky.

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