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PostPosted: Wed Mar 25, 2009 4:15 am 
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I have been dating a girl for about 3 weeks now and we get alone really well! we cuddle, kiss, ect....she has slept at my house 3 times in the past couple weeks but we have not yet had sex.....I have not tried any thing because I care about her but at the same time I feel like mabey I should?? With most women I have sex with in the first couple days but those are girls that I see no future with.

How long is to long? or is there such thing when it comes to dating? should I make a move soon? or should I wait it out and just let it happen?


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 25, 2009 4:37 am 
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You need to go for it man. 3 weeks and sleep overs and no sex? Escalate or lose her.


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Ye Im thinking I should as well....Im glad I have not done any thing yet because I think it did show her that I care about her....but I dont want her to start thinking Im just scared.

The bad part is that now that I have held off this long it will prob be much harder to have sex with her....who knows I guess I wont know until I go for it but I am a little nerves now haha


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"Dating" before having sex is a ridiculous notion unless you're in high school or some shit like that.

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No, if you actually care about her, then you will wait. and wait, and wait some more. I waited about a year and a half before finally doing it with my girlfrend, and weve been together for two years. there are other things to do with girls besides lay them.


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phantom, what are you like....14? or is she just super fuckign christian?

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phantom what kind of horrible advice is that?
What do the always say.. You gotta get inside
a girl to really know her, now take that and do it Literally


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No, if you actually care about her, then you will wait. and wait, and wait some more. I waited about a year and a half before finally doing it with my girlfrend, and weve been together for two years. there are other things to do with girls besides lay them.
Worst advice ever I do not approve of having blue balls for 1 1/2 years.

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I do not approve of having blue balls for 1 1/2 years.
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Kick her in the sponge!


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Dude just think of it as she wants as much if not more then you! If you cant wait anymore then the liklihood is neither can she! So go for it!

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Dude just think of it as she wants as much if not more then you! If you cant wait anymore then the liklihood is neither can she! So go for it!

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What in the name of Jesus are you doing on here then?

1 year 1/2 is preposterous.

But on another note. Has anyone had sex with a girl and then just totally gone off her?

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 26, 2009 1:18 pm 
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GURU - 7 hours tops from opener to f-closer 100% sucess rate
mPUA - As above but with maybe a 85-90% sucess rate
PUA - As above but 50% F-close, 30% K-close, 10% # only, 10% fail
AFC - 10% # close, 2% F-close, 3% K-close.. F close usually over serveral days


I think really if u wanna date her and get relationship tips this might not be best place for it, altho im not anti organised relationships I dont advocate monogomy or long term commitment. Not my scene and thats why im here.

I wud b fucking sum1 else if I hadnt F-closed by 3 weeks, geez, what a waste of time and effort. I can F-close in an evening without spending a penny on the girl and with minimal input. I would start sowing the seeds mate, within 3 weeks I wudda hopefully slept with 3-5 women on average


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 26, 2009 11:25 pm 
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GURU - 7 hours tops from opener to f-closer 100% sucess rate
mPUA - As above but with maybe a 85-90% sucess rate
PUA - As above but 50% F-close, 30% K-close, 10% # only, 10% fail
AFC - 10% # close, 2% F-close, 3% K-close.. F close usually over serveral days

I like the statistics, but I'm feeling pedantic and Just wanted to add the note;
It's never 100%
maybe 99%, but you're never guaranteed a lay, until your penis is touching her outer lips... (not really guaranteed even then, true LMR may happen, but it's not likely.)

;)

Basically think this way, once she's comfortable and turned on by the idea of you fucking her, you have the opportunity.
There's no time limit, some people get fucked within 10 minutes of meeting. (pun intended)

It all depends on the goal of your game, but spending more than 2-3 weeks on one girl (and only one girl) is not what I'd call Serious Game.


But then again, if you're going for monogamous LTR, it may be your schtick.
Just know that you should, and could most likely, close much sooner.


And phantomxrider.... What did you do the 1 1/2 year ?
Did you seriously just wait around for one girl ?

(Nothing wrong with it, it's just not exactly what PUA is about, as far as I know)
Just don't give this sort of advice to people who would like to get some tail within this decade.

No one should wait around for that long for a single girl, unless.... (I've got nothing, I'm hoping someone will justify this sort of behavior on your behalf. :P)



Regardless. Speed up your escalation and lay this girl. Then find out if you want LTR or if you worked three weeks for a single lay (which would suck, imo)

Cheers ;)


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Maybe you should try escalating hard and see what happens.

She may just be waiting for you to make a move.

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