I’m a junior in college and I’ve pretty much been told by everyone that your college years are going to be the best years of your life. Now since my college years are coming to an end I feel like everything is going to go down hill from now on. I feel like there is nothing to look forward to after I graduate. I’m only going to look and feel older, I’m reaching my prime and I really haven’t established myself in a position I want to be in. I haven’t found a girl that I really like who feels the same way about me. It sucks feeling that my best years are coming to an end when I haven’t really lived them the way I want to.

Come'on man relax think of all the guys out there who still struggle to pick up any type of women or for that matter the 40+ guys who've sucked with women there whole lives. Have fun with your new found attraction skills and eventually you'll realize that all you really want is a LTR and a beautiful wife. Wow I sound like Dr. Phil hahahahaa

Hehe, I feel ya bro. Ever since I turned 20, I thought it was all over, I grew desperate to make up for lost time, someone caught up in the idea that life ends at 25 and I better be settled down by then.

Relax buddy, you have plenty of fun years left, maybe when you turn 50 you should be thinking about settling down (or find a younger woman? My dad did...). You'll still be in your prime by the time you hit 40 my dear friend.

Don't worry too much about if (you probably will though, the above wisdom is the kind that only comes with age ), just make sure you have every ounce of fun you can squeeze out of every day, every week, every month, every year.

Oh, and the idea that there is nothing to look forward to when you graduate is just downright silly. That's when you get your awesome job, which gives you money for all the things you've ever wanted!

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Don't buy into the whole "best years of your life" scam. You cannot change the past or control the future. The best time of your life is right now, in this second, because it is the only moment that truly exists.

Now the question is, what are you gonna do with it?

Your boy,
870

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I agree with 870, live in the moment. Its funny really, you think you're at a point when the fun is going to be all over and in all actuality its just beginning. You will be able to hit the clubs and meet so many new people. Life is what you make of it and if you let what everybody else says it is guide you, you will never be happy with life. The best advice I can give you is to play it by ear at this current point in time. You sound somewhat confused, so listen and learn what you really want to do.

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I'm 38 now, newly single and I'm actually in the best time of my life now. I've got money, my looks, and the confidence and smarts I didnt have when I was younger. Dont stress over your time, dont waste it either but enjoy yourself. If you got the right mind, you'll have a great life for years.

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