hey,

so i'm having trouble with the phase shift from attraction to sexual. i seem to get stuck every time, i'm still getting numbers, just finding it hard to switch the momentum of the conversation.

to be honest, i don't even now that many techniques on how to either.

any techniques you guys know would be a great help

-Teen

This is one of the most common problems most guys face, how to turn around a conversation and put into jeopardy all that trust they have just built up. It again boils down to the whole putting the negative side out of your mind. Approach this situation like you would a word problem for instance. Every situation has a strict set of rules that govern it, being prepared is a great way to break past this point. So with that you could use the rule of three, that is find any three IOIs from the interaction before and then make your move. These are some typical moves I employ on a regular basis to catalyze the phase shift. First, kino is always great, if your uncomfortable or unsure about contact try it in a very non-aggressive way like your hand on her upper arm or shoulder and judge her response. If you are more comfortable with kino then grabbing her hand, yours on bottom with your thumb over the top of hers, is a very gentle and subtle tactic, again judge her response. I mention judging her response, the best ways to do this are analyzing body language because it is unlikely she will flat out tell you. If you have any questions of body language analysis post again and I will be happy to share what I know or feel free to research it on your own. However, the most crucial point of judging the female response, and possibly the most important way to trigger the phase shift is eye contact. Be sure to hold her gaze and smile and her eyes will almost always give it away. If she breaks contact she is probably in need of a bit more work to break the shell, however if she holds the gaze you can slowly move your way in and voila you may have just landed a kiss close. These techniques can be adapted to a variety of opening and mid game techniques and I hope they prove usefull.

ok thanks, that should help alot.

what other IOI are there other than her asking for your name, good response to kino and keeping her attention focused on you
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Thats a tough question to answer. Some people judge IOIs much more liberally than I choose to, I feel aside from a few obvious ones, its an in the moment thing to call. However, some decent ones to look for could be any of the usual role reversals, ie what a typical AFC does to get a girls attention. These could include, her buying you a drink, her engaging you with questions while you do not over aknowledge her questions (playing aloof); basically anything that she does to try to get your attention on her. So I suppose my advice is to look for any key role reversals, reactions to kino, her body allignment and language (fully facing you and/or leaning towards you), and most impotantly how she holds eye contact.

ok thanks, this should help alot.

Misinterpret her word as trying to seduce/rape/have sex with you (in a playful manner). an example will be..

PUA: (tease)
HB: fuck you
PUA: omg why are you fucking? am i too hot?
(made up situation)

and check out ross jeffries' technique. they are super good even if you are not a big fan of NLP/hypnosis seduction. like...

Don't think about having sex with Britney Spear in the beach.

it just forces the HB to think about sex, but of course you have to learn how to hide them subtle in the convo. search "up to speed with speed seduction" in youtube you will find free tutorial video that is quite useful.

hope this might help =]
zhu

ok thanks, i'll be sure to look them up even though i think NLP won't work on teenage girls, but i'll try it