My girlfriend just told me that,
and Im tryin to think of what to say back because I dont feel the same way.
I know the obvious answer is to tell her I dont feel the same way, but Im just a lil lost...

Nino

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You miss one hundred percent of the shots you dont take.

I had the same situation years back.

I can tell you it is not the end of your world to tell her that you don´t like her (anymore).

If I was you the straightness of my response would depend on how long we have been together.

You gonna break her heart anyway.

u can say
"u make me feel so happy" and hug, look at her and kiss her then she will think she just did the best thing and wont think about u saying it or if u really like her, not yet feel love but see urself oneday saing it to her, tell her u mean the world to me, she will think ur saing it back but ur not.

Do you not feel the same because you're past that and now bored of her or is it because you haven't been together long enough to develope a deep love for her?

I'd add to this: Or are you not looking for love right now?

If you are becoming bored with her or you're not looking for love, I'd say you have to cop to it and break her heart a little bit now to avoid breaking it a lot more later. "I think we've grown apart" and "I think we're looking for different things" are both painful conversations to have, but they're a hell of a lot better than the alternative. (I had a girl lie to herself and to me about her feelings up past the point where we were engaged to be married. It sucks. Don't do that to anybody.)

If you just don't feel it yet and you think that you might, a gentle, "Shh. Not yet" is kind of bittersweet, but again, it's better than the alternative. If she's going to drop you because your feelings aren't at exactly the same place that hers are, then you'll be doing yourself a favour.

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Some vices miss what is right because they are deficient, others because they are excessive, in feelings or in actions, while virtue finds and chooses the mean.
Aristotle, Ethica Nichomachea

"I know" and kiss her right there.

Right now Im looking to be free,
And Im not really looking for a serious relationship,
Im at a comfortable position in my game where Im starting/have been reaping the benefits.

So I guess thats my answer then.
thanks guys

Sarge on

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You miss one hundred percent of the shots you dont take.

If this is the case then yeah, you really ought to tell her this up front and let her know exactly where she stands rather than stringing her along. Good to see that you know what you want

Be honest and say that those words mean something to you, and you don't want to say them just randomly. Then say how how she means the world to you, and some other complements, she'll love you even more.

When i heared that i just said something or kissed her. No thanks, or you too. I remember my girlfriend saying these lines to me for about half a year, but i didn't feel 'inlove' i just felt good, happy, but not something unbelieveable, but once i felt like that, i told her. And now she knows that my "love you" means exactly that and not the oposite