So far in 2009 I've slept with 5 girls. And made out with 20 or so but who really keeps track. I didn't think my number of 5 was that overly impressive. But it came up in conversation the other day and everyone seemed really impressed and surprised that some one could pull that many girls in under 3 months.

Where are you guys all sitting for 2009?

Interested,
B-Man

LMFAO…5? Is that a good or bad thing?

This is not an ego thing. If I wanted my ego stroked I'd talk to my AFC friends. I'm just curious. I get laid more now that I discovered the community, but I don't know what the average PUAs out there are pulling.

I'm sure peoples numbers are affected by how busy they are. I work and I'm a full time student. So I get to sarge about once every couple of weeks. But I'm sure there are guys with better game than me and just aren't getting the opportunities (too busy, work, family, etc) to sarge and close.

Honestly, I have no idea if 5 is good, bad or terrible.

B-Man

Now, some of you are starting to get it! Destroy your ego! Your ego and your silly comparing of yourself to others is a one-way ticket to misery and depression. Life is NOT a competition. When you are in bed suffering from the last stages of cancer do you think that you are going to be thinking of being number one in anything?

Girls are nice, sex is nice, food is nice, but none of those are IT. Some of you are avoiding yourselves by lusting after girls and sex. Only way you get joy in life is to work inwards.

AFC friends My God, your ego is making you sound really arrogant. I thought all this PUA stuff was supposed to make you into a "better man"? Yeah, right. The real you is amazing if you ever find it. You need to spend a lot of time by yourself. Try a form of "active meditation". Traditional meditation doesn't work for modern day man. Here is another trick. When you are out DON'T focus on judging people. Just focus on your own movements. Be aware of how things feel in your hands, watch your movements, etc. There are other tricks you can use as well. The entire idea is to escape from your thoughts (from your mind). Live in the present. Your mind will destroy you!

If you start looking inwards the girls will come TO YOU. I promise. Girls are more sensitive to energy and vibes than males. Believe me, their bodies are attracted to a man who is in harmony with his true self.

It takes HUGE balls to be who you really are. Society doesn't want individuals. Society wants lemmings it can control. The scariest thing you will ever do is look inwards. Most people can't stand being all alone for more than a few days. Try it. That is why solitary confinement is Hell on earth for most men. It forces you to live with your greatest enemy - Yourself! We all need to spend more time with ourselves. Anything that causes us to learn about the true you is good in my book.

Some people will say that this isn't "rational". Hey, life isn't rational! Girls are not rational. Nothing is rational. Nothing can be predicted. Never ever fight life! Enjoy the ride and don't expect anything!

Hey dude, cant fault you for being curious. I took a poll on kind of this about 2 weeks ago, check it here how-many-vt40997.html

Really, the only thing that matters is are you meeting YOUR goals. Sounds like you are doing juuuust fine to me.

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Wow, you must be lucky. I am quite at peace with myself and I'm not beating girls off with a stick.

The fact that you even care about how your "performance" ranks as defined by the standards of other people and by comparing yourself to others means that it's an ego thing in some way, shape, or form.

Don't worry, though. It's normal. Just make sure you don't get obsessed with ego-related shit like this. Redirect your focus toward more productive things like comparing yourself to you and never stop growing.

yea it shouldnt matter, if you think 5s a lot then pat ur self on the back, if you dont then try harder

theres no good or bad, if your getting with girls and ur game is workin thats all u should be worried about

Well I dont mind being honest, my ego doesnt need a rubbing and I got nothing to win nor lose. I accept the general curiousty of the chap here.

In 2009,

From Jan 1 - Feb 1 (Last month of my 3yr LTR before I decided being a PUA is for life not just for xmas). Within this month I had slept with a woman I work with (#1) ( I dont count my ex gf as #1 really)

Mid Feb - Took a young HB8 to a hotel for wild night (#2)

End Feb - Game'd on a milf and spent the night in hotel (#3)

Start March - F-Closed a catalogue model HB9 almost 10 (#4)

Weekend just gone up - F'd with a girl I been txt gaming a while (#5)

------Litterally just moving into a new flat which been decorating-----

Rapidly approaching weekend ahead - #-closed girl week ago, phoned her to inform of my new flat, told would give the guided tour of my 4 bedroom walls all weekend, she requested she could bring her gf with her. So hopefully I will have up to 7 after this weekend, but actually have somewhere to take girls now and am single.

So not doing bad really

like Besch said in a drunken stuppor "You gotta make each girl an experience, stop thinking about results"

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It really does have to vary depending on where you live, how old you/the girls you're into are, where you go, your goals... My God the list is endless!! In response I'd ask you this, how long is a piece of string?

Seeing as how you're curious though I'm actually sat at slightly lower numbers but I'm really not bothered one bit. For me, this year has been amazing so far, especially for my inner game. I've had some really great nights that haven't finished with sex and the ones that have, have been completely out of this world!

If only I could drum this into a 'friend' of mine's skull...

It really is true though.

So far, approaches are the only noteworthy things I've done so far. Here's what I've done over the last few weeks:

- Sat next to a fairly hot chick at the bus stop (even though I wasn't catching the bus!) and talked to her until she left, which wasn't long.

- Approached a chick standing up presumably waiting for someone and said 'hi there'. She immediately walked away possibly blowing me off.

- Approached two young girls sitting on a bench. Seeing up close that they were too young I just asked them (after a pause of thought) if there was a computer shop nearby and got the hell out of there.

- Approached quite a voluptuous woman looking at sensual oils in an adult store. I hovered around and then said 'hi there, how's it going?' and she walked off to a different part of the store, either not hearing me or blowing me off.

- Chatted to a chick on her own who came up behind me in a line to get into a nightclub. Throughout the short convo I told her my name and she told me her name, but not long after that I completely froze up and didn't talk to her anymore.

None so far this year. Infact none since I learnt about pickup which is roughly when I joined this forum. The interesting thing is that once I learnt pickup I realised that girls are just girls.