well ive come across this situation many times before and was wondering if anyone has a way to (for lack of better terms) coerce a girl into inviting you to join her in her plans.

the pretense to the question in my specfici instances was that all the girls are from my school. we see each other at least a few times a week. they all are clearly interested, giving lots of IOI's having givin me there numbers, there all waiting for me to ask THEM out. but i cannot because all my plans involve me staying at home with a few friends that would be lower my value tremendoulsy if they were to interact with these girls (all are SUPER AFC's). my only way of truly interacting with them is to go out with THEM(the girls), and join in Their plans. however i dont know how to get them to ask me out, or to frame myself in a way to jump in on their plans.

last friday a hb8 asked Me what i was doing on that friday night, i told her i didnt know, she responded by sharing her plans with me(laser tag with ALL of the hb9.5+'s from our grade; i would have loved loved loved to join them. im confident i would have gotten AT LEAST 3 k closes with the hottest girls in our school). but my issue is how should i frame the interaction/a question so that they ask me to join them?

no ideas?

Well your in a way better situation than alot of us. I'd just make up something like man i was supposed to hang out with my friends to do this but they couldn't make it I guess I'll settle for you guys or something. (Cause I see that you don't wanna ask if you can be involved in their plans so you won't lower your value.) So ask but ask them like you could be doing better things.