i was trying to hit on this hb 7 at the workplace .. anyways heres how it went .. in mid conversation she asked me my age .. i go xx and then she says shes around 32. a 12 year difference ... the conversation kind of went downhill from there .. i dont want her thinking of me as a friend , but more of a fbuddy.

what could i have said to turn the conversation around ... she doesnt have a ring on her finger meaning she is single

i go with anywhere between 23 to 25. its young but not immature. i am 21 and i've gottn with a 34 yo chick. u dont need to talk to her any differently than u would any other chick but i'd recommend lying about the age. but in ur case u cant take her out to a bar or club. i'd just awit till i hit 21 first.

i like saying:

'38 ... good genes!"

and if she asks .. na seriously..

be like ok u guess...

then say hot or cold.. then poke ur tounge out at her when she gets it right and say.. a pitty im too youthful for u to handle!

why do you say "im xx" but then say "12 yr difference"?

either you're 20, or 44 lol

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Well from research the ideal age which is ok for any women within reason to date is 22. (UK socity based) For america maybe 24.

Well from the start i would begin to structure the conversation in a manner which allowed DHV indicators. For example i have travelled quite abit.

"When i travelled to India i really developed a new understanding of myself and my enviroment, it open my eyes. There is was this one place near a beach where i sat and contemplated for 5 hours till the sharks where almost biting my feet. In those 5 hours i did more maturing than the entire ** before. Its like when something just switches in your head, YOU know what i mean?"

Off the top of my head but sets you up as DIFFERENT!

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