right well she used to fancy me loads and chased me and chased me and i had a girlfriend at the time..

i kept turning my back

she's a HB9.5

i split up with my ex about 4 months ago..

so i started talking to the HB one day (before i even started learning about PUA)

and then we met up again and she held my hand in the cinema and was trying to get me to make more oves.. but i held off and let her wait...

she then asked me when she will next see me

so then she said a rough date and so on..

then i she told me she has feelings for me

all of a sudden she started going quiet..

she started talking less and then her phone broke it was borken for ages (during this time i discovered PUA) then she got a hold of her dads phone and contacted me

so we were on the phone for hours..


then more less talking..(she is a busy person owns 6 horses)

the organised date fell through cos she was working and had horse competitions..

so then i asked her how she felt about me still?

she said she likes me but doesnt have the time..

then she went on holiday for a week... just before she went she tried organising another date but i couldnt make it cos i was going on olhiday when she came back for a week..

i know sucks!!!

so thenshe came back and we were talking this was the day before i went on holiday

so the conov went a bit like this at the end..

she seems cold... but this is normal.. lol i know you rpbo think its my denial but its not..



I JUST got back from france..

she hasnt been online last time we spoke her phone was still not working..

but i left her a text... not reply today..

what should i do.. to gurantee success..

i am willing to make the effort of seeing her.. she lives a couple of hours away... but we can meet half way

now i can build my PUA knowledge in..

help please, thanks.. i really like her..

i rekon there still a chance..

cheers

UPDATE: she did reply now and shes asked me how my holiday went...

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I like to hybrid techniques, inner game and methods with my own natural game.

DeAngelo says that if you tell a women who you have feelings for that you "like her a lot" (god forbid you would use the L-word) it creates what is called the "instant ew" factor.

Now, I know you didn't tell her that you liked her but she said it to you and you didn't really return it, she might have thought that she had made it uncomfortable for you (eg the male equal of the instant ew...if we have one?) and therefore wanted to keep her distance.

From what you have written it didn't sound like you met and talked to this girl like you were trying to pick her up, like she was a friend. If this is the case you have been caught in a place where AFC's find themselves in a lot, the area between FRIEND and LOVER, and its that area that you drown in.

Id suggest to not call her or text (you'll look needy) and wait for her to make the first move, then act as if you were starting from square one in terms of trying to score with her.

Just make sure you don't get one-itis

- Memento

I would contact her and BE what attracted her originally, "off limits" i would call her and let her know that your tired of playing cat and mouse and Cocky Funny tell her if she wants to get a shot with you she needs to be @ x place and y time and then follow it up BEFORE she answers with the classic "all im promising for now is good conversation but if u play your cards right we will see" and AGAIN before the Answer i would throw in a False Time Constrant like "but it has to be then because i dont have long and i have a prior engagement i have to attend after"

Good Luck Player

The Q

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"Excuse me, Do you speak english?...GREAT now you have one more reason to talk to ME!" - The Q

cheers guys! anyone else?

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I like to hybrid techniques, inner game and methods with my own natural game.