Mirage – something illusory, without substance or reality, unattainable


A Beautiful woman sitting alone in a busy community lounge


Your thoughts as you first lay eyes on her
“I’ll talk to her in minute, let me think of something clever to say, no wait that opener won’t work ----diving deeper in your mind ------She’s hotter than the normal 6’s I usually settle on, she’ll still be there after I purchase my bagel and coffee from the shop, maybe I’m not her type, maybe she’s not my type, her personality may not be cool, what if she thinks I’m ugly, too skinny, what if people see me talking to her, what if people see me getting rejected I’ll be embarrassed...*breath* i can do this, Hold on let me bend down and tie my shoe”…. Ok I’m ready….
(You look Up She’s Gone)

You will never see her again this lifetime, she'll never know you, you'll never know her. That moment with her sitting there will never return ~The Mirage you created

Situations change. Hesitation creates more obstacles such as: now her mood and focus has changed she’s not as open to your approach as she would have been 3mins ago, she’s on her cell phone now, another man has noticed her too now he’s talking to her and she’s enjoying his company, her girlfriend/s have come into play, or she leaves her current position

The world is in motion. Nothing comes to those who stand and wait.

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i swear AFCs with AA should like put this shit on their walls and read it every day

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

Freakin awesome man. I will admit ive done this a couple of times guess you gotta live in the Now. Not wonder about the future and just go with the flow for once and let things progress naturally and handle themselves.

Theres a parable i once heard don't remember where its from or the exact words but...

"A man and a woman met one day on the sidewalk. They talk and enjoy each others company for awhile before moving to another location to get better acquianted. They find out they are completely compatiable and they seem like they have known each other since the beginng of time. But they decided to test it to see if they are meant to be by there logic they will meet again if they are truly meant to be. Days turn into weeks, weeks transfrom into months and months into years and so. The two eventually meet again about 50 years later each married a different person who they just didnt quite click with and it has been so long so many things have changed that they never realize each other. So they pass ways again only remebering that one day..."

Even though your talking about opening this is still talking about take that chance, because you dont want to waste time on what could have been.

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Great great post!
If I may be so bold as to add something I try to live my life by:
"I can live with failure, but I cannot live with *what if* regrets".
What i mean by this is that life gives you opportunities to do things, maybe not even to do with women, I will use the example of a sky dive.
If you got a free sky dive and got up in the plane and didn't jump out because you were scared and never got that opportunity again, it would feel shit you were to much of a pussy to do it. The difference between the sky dive and approaching a women is you could actually die from the sky dive (very rare), the worst you'll get from saying "hi" to a beautiful women is some strong words and left standing alone.

Again, great post reo!
Madals

LOL hey whatever helps right
Yes that and time travel and how I can't do it,... at least not yet
Thanks and So true no man has ever died a painful death from being rejected by a woman heart broken maybe but they'll live to game another day

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Due to the high volume of emails about who the girl in my avatar is and this post are. To answer the everyones question at once
my avatar is model Vida Guerra
The girl in the post is none other than music artist/actress Alicia Keys

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Alicia Keys aka perfect 9.999


Great post

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-Dre

If your going to question me, you better have a theory behind your argument.

"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."
-Harvey Fierstein