Ok been with my girl officially for 2 weeks now and I confronted her about making more effort with me and planning dates and she sort of laughed it off and was fairly surprised with my statement.

I just want her to plan dates with me. Like ask me what Im doing on friday and we'll go out or somthing?

Am I asking too much? I dont think so. I mean to be fair she could argue that I never ring her or text her. But still..

If Im right how can I get her to plan more things? I've tried asking her to do it with no avail, and ive hinted at it.

The following post contains "tough love". Don't take it the wrong way, I'm just trying to help you.

If you continue this behaviour, no more than two weeks from now she will be laying naked in bed next to another guy talking about what a wuss you are. She'll say things like "Yeah, (your name) was such a pussy, he couldn't stand up for himself, never make a decision, he was always whining to me that I'D take him out, that I was somehow responsible for making all things in this relationship happen. I always had to call him, it was like he was afraid or something.. Maybe he lacked balls (cue raw laughter from naked guy next to her) or something.. Such a wuss.. I'm glad I met a REAL MAN like you Stan (or Steve. Or George. Or whatever)!" Then they'll roll over and he'll fuck your girlfriend again and again and again.

Okey, now get those bad images OUT OF YOUR HEAD, pull on some FUCKING PANTS, GROW A PAIR and start acting like a REAL MAN! You know what a real man does, don't you? He ACTS. He LEADS. He MAKES DECISIONS! A girl is just someone lucky enough to be on for the ride.

Rented a movie you wanted to see? Call her, TELL HER to get her skanky ass over and watch it with you. Going clubbing this weekend? TELL HER to be there! You hungry? TELL her you are, and drag her ass along to the local grease-shop.

If you put the decision-making in HER hands, you're giving her way to much power buddy. It's not nice, or cool, or polite, it's BORING and UNATTRACTIVE! No wonder she laughed, she probably thought you were crazy even to suggest this (and heck, she probably found it a turn-off too).

So, take fucking CHARGE of the relationship! Don't let HER run it, because she'll be bored like hell of it within two weeks and end up in bed with Stan. Or Steve. Or George. Or WHOEVER ACTS LIKE A MAN!

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You see, when she will be depended on you, she will do this. 2 weeks is just a little bit. If you're gonna be with her for a longer period of time, then maybe you'll get lucky, but for now, you haven't made an impression to her, or she is shy(there are a lot of shy girls waiting for your move, so when she'll be comfortable with you, you should get lucky)

Good post by fedster, i 100% agree

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post in the right sections or ill do ur mom in the butt

HAHAHA FEDSTER! Your right, why the fuck am I moaning? Im alpha at the end of the day!

Too true.. ill shut my noise from now on and be a MAN!

And Chief.. chill, relax questions answered, no need to do my mum in the butt or I may have to do yours

hahahaha fk yea man, i agree. dude hi 5