Yea, im 18 and new in here. I'm jus finished freshmen year at Uconn and am going to Udelaware this year, and I got osme things i need to work on...lol mainly gettin more cnfidence and jus gettin the confidence to talk to chicks when im not introduced by someone else, ya kno?

Welcome siris..

To talk to 'em, you got to get close to 'em.. At a party or club, etc..

Try this. Next time you see a chick that's attractive, start slowly working your way in her direction without her noticing, or blatantly depending upon any eye contact you've made with her.

Then stand next to her. If she looks at you smile and say hi, how are you? Or something to that effect. And see how she responds. If it's positive start a conversation about the surroundings, etc..

If she's initially cautious or cold, introduce yourself, pat her on the shoulder then excuse yourself. Her move. Pay attention.

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