Dating...I love it. It is exciting! I love the chase, I love the game, I love everything about it...

For anyone who doesn't know, a time bridge is essentially when you meet a girl and set up a time and place to continue your interactions. When you go out sarging, the idea is not to get numbers, but to see the girl again. The number is just a tool you utilize, but in itself, a number doesn't mean shit.

Tonight I tried something new. I have thought of this idea plenty of times, but decided to implement it tonight. I saw these two girls dancing. We were at a bar with a dance floor. This is not a club, these were not trashy club girls. They were having a good time on the dance floor and the two guys they were with were watching them from their home station of a table. Beta males. As soon as I saw the girl in the black dress I knew that was the girl I was talking to tonight.

I move to the dance floor. I am having a good time. I start to compare dance moves with this girl. It is a routine I use quite often when appropriate. We show each other our favorite moves and start dancing a little more seriously. Her body was very tight and very fit. She had a lot of sex appeal. Our conversations were good and I controlled the frame. I always refrain from asking names. I wait for her IOI. After 20 minutes or so she finally asks what my name is. I like this girl so far. She is fun, she is very attractive and has the potential to be interesting. The idea pops into my head, something I have thought about before, but realize this is a good time to try this out!

HB: So what is your name anyways?
Me: I have an idea...I think you would like it
HB: Really? What is it?? (she seems genuinely excited about it, and this is one reason why I like her)
Me: There is something I always wanted to do, something that is risky but you seem like the kind of girl that would appreciate this.
HB: okay!!! what is it??
Me: Alright well, I think instead of telling each other our names now, and instead of exchanging numbers like most people would do in this situation, we should pick a place and a time and meet, and just hope that the other person shows! We can exchange names and numbers there.
HB: That is crazy, that is an awesome idea...but I don't know if you would show up...
Me: I know, neither of us know if we will show up..Maybe I will, maybe I will just show up late to make you nervous I think we should do it, it would be fun...
HB: Alright I think we should! But you better show up!
Me: Alright, Cobblestone's at 7:30....what do you think?
HB: Yes! I love that place...alright. I can't wait!

The bar is closing at this point. Neither of us are drunk which is important. Her friend who is witnessing all of this says:
"I really think you should just exchange numbers now, just to be on the safe side."

I dismiss this immediately, so does she! We are intrigued by the mystery of if we will really see each other again.

I think she will show. I think I will show too. Maybe I will be a little late...This will be a fun experiment and I will fill you in on the rest on Tuesday! Wish me luck!!!

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Sounds like an exciting concept, very creative let us know if she shows, now I'm intrigued

WOW! I love that! I would like to give that a shot once I'm a bit more comfortable and confident in my game. What a very intriguing line Roofas!

The moment of truth:

I walked into the bar, a little late as planned. Nonchalantly sat down, took my coat off and relaxed for a second. I took a quick look around, I didn't see her. I am wondering if she is going to show. The thoughts that crossed my mind. I wonder if she will forget. I wonder if she felt slightly obligated to come and not leave the other person in the chance they might come, or if she thought that I might not show up at all and wouldn't bother. Regardless, I'm here and I'll have a good time one way or another. The bar has a few other good looking girls here that I could talk to if need be.

The bar tender is coming down my way to take my order. A look to my left as this middle aged waitress approaches me.

"Are you meeting a girl here?"

"Yes, actually I am."

"She is right this way..."

She leads me into the restaurant section and there are two girls sitting down. The girl with her back to me turns around, and is overly excited that I showed up!

"I can't believe you came!!" she says.

I give her a hug and we are both happy to see each other and start talking over each other, explaining all of the thoughts and doubts we had. All of the thoughts I had, she had the same. This is a bonding experience and I'm sure it built an element of trust in our new relationship.

We had a good time. I wish she didn't bring her friend. I know she wishes the same. We talked for about 2 hours, had a few drinks. Finally we exchange names and numbers. I know her friend wants to go home, so despite wanting the night to last longer, we both go our separate ways. She and her friend car pooled so she had to bring her home. Poor planning on her part, or she was betting I wouldn't come.

She is coming over wednesday night. We are going to a hip hop dance class that my friend teaches. I have never gone and I am far from a hip hop enthusiast. I just think it will be fun.

I have a few more dates lined up this week, but Monday's date started the week off good!

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You truely are innovative and I take my hat off to you!

(I would rep you but I don't have enough rep power as yet)

All I have to say is "Bravo Sir"
that is awesome, i will try

Thank you...it was a fun little experiment! let me know if you give it a try...

I would definitely set the meeting date as soon as possible. The more time that passes the more time I think it would be less likely to work. I'd be interested in hearing your results!!

And just a quick update. We went out on Wednesday. We got some drinks and talked some more. She is cool, but I don't see it going much further. She started saying crazy things like "you better not be seeing other girls (jokingly with a touch of sincerity)" This may have been the alcohol talking, but either way, I don't have time for that...

There are plenty more girls in the line up!

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You are a genius.


You gave me a wonderfull idea.