Well I've been talking to this girl for a while now. Just recently we got in an argument and she told me to never to talk to her again. But then 2 weeks later she came up to me wanting to put it to rest. So she said we are now starting on a new slate. At first things were not the way they used to be at all,(Like no late night conversations and stuff) But one day I called, she said she would call back. So she calls me late that night, and I had her laughing like crazy, I was starting to get some IOI's again. So I ask her out again. (We've only gone out like 2 or 3 times before the fight even though we used to talk on the phone at night like all the time). So we actually go out but then she had to go home early, but she says we'll go out the next day. But then all this week she's had some excuse for not being able to go out with me like I got real sick, I'm babysitting. Or the day that we plan to do something she take's all day to text back. But we've talked a few days ago for along time with some pretty deep conversations. But for the last days she acts like she don't want to talk as much.

I think some of my problems are that I supplicate too much, and that it's hard now for me too show another side of me other than my funny side. I know if I wanna take this too another level, we got to go out on some dates. I also know that this time I got some serious competition, like now I hear that she's talking with some 21 year old guy (I'm about to be 19) and I think thats the guy that she has been talking too instead of me sometimes.

I Need Some Advice Big Time. How can I take this relationship to another level and eliminate the competition.

THANKS

You've got yourself in a bad position. You need to show her you have a strong social life and that you have pre-selection... of course, the best thing you could do is GFTOW (go fuck ten other women). keep up w/ your continual self-improvement (like DeAngelo suggests), hit the gym, get more cool friends, sleep with other HBs and then come back to her in 2-3 months.

If you try to salvage it at this point you could crash & burn badly. & what's so great about this chick anyway?

& when texting remember to use the strategies in that sticky on text gaming:

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most of the text negs only work if you've used DeAngelo's c&f strategy really well w/ her before but this one is very light and playful; works great:

Me: OMG! you would not believe what happen to me last night...
Girl:(Instant Response) What?!? tell me
Me: Oh shit sorry wrong person

you'll have to made a great impression on her w/ plaful c&f (and she has to be HB8+) if you want to use these:

(opener) Hey..do me a favor and text me right back. Just hi or something. My friends dont believe retards can text. We'll show em lil buddy
(opener) I miss you and wanna see you, but this dumb security guard won't let me in the zoo. Is there any way you can escape?

thanks man, I see what your sayin she's pretty hot but she's not all that I think I just really like her alot

but do u think its good to startin phone convo's shorter even if they're real late

Freeze her out. While you're at it, GFTOW.

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i wouldn't talk on the phone for more than 20 minutes. girl's have to know that you have a life, that you have other things going on. And of course, you should. when she calls you monday-thursday night don't say you're watching TV, say you're reading a book. btw, I recommend stuff like The Science of Good and Evil by Michael Shermer, The Revolution by Ron Paul and Bad News by Robert Shogan

When you're done either say that you want to get back to reading, that a buddy just showed up or that you're expecting another call

Update:

Well I stopped texting her for awhile but today was my birthday so I got a Happy Birthday text message! (Today's Sunday and she goes to my church) So then at first when I actually see her she doesn't say much. But after church she tries to talk to me and things go well. So she came over for the little celebration. When she was over things continued to go really well (little bit of kino, chemistry was on point). Some of the kino was even started by her. It was probably the most I've ever kino escalated with her. But then she left because me and my sister kind of got into an argument but she said everything was still on the same terms. Should I text her or call her. Or just wait a while.