in that case... i arrived when i was 16... thanks for making my ego that much bigger!

my goal is:

I want to meet new people, build up a social circle. Meet especially many women
And find a girl who fits to me as a gf

aaaaand luckily i'm sooo close to the last point

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As long as the Kino is right and the negs are used effectively u cant go wrong

ok my goals for fun as thas y im in the driving seat for, is for one nigh frun or friends with benefits.

so i dedicate every friday night to seduction and pleasure.
my second is a skill im developing of going to the same club a few weeks in a row, take a different lady everytime and not get a reputation as a sleaze which ill hope to create a new post on soon.

Probably a solid gf, not that high school bullshit

and to be able to prove my friends otherwise, they believe i'm that goofy kid who can't get a girl.

If my goals in this PUA world could be condensed into one character, it would be Brendan Fraser's suave author in Bedazzled...up until he carries his target into the bedroom and without being gay.

I'm new here, so here are my goals:
* get a really great long term girlfriend
* a bit of extra sex experience wouldn't hurt, that would make me better lover when I find my special girl
* learn how to be more confident with girls and attractive to them, mostly for the sake of eventual ltr

Hehe, I like the concept of goals, though I'm not really a goal setting kind of person.

But anyway;
I'd like to be able to pick out a woman and get her, without hesitation.
- To get to the level where I can live out my sexual life with women of my selection rather than defaults.
- To be able to satisfy any woman beyond what they ever have experienced.
- To attract the most beautiful women while in my comfort zone (which means a lot of pushing of my current comfort zone)
- To never go without sex except by my own choice.

- (more ) threesomes
- two simultaneous bisexual HB8+ LTRs, with both girls' consent, and preferably live with them. (My idea is that more than two girls at the same time becomes much more work than I'm willing to put into it.)
- never having to pay for use of Models (I'm studying to become an artist (painting))

That's all I wrote, so far.
Other goals not directly related include stuff like mastery of NLP, Hypnosis, Massage, perhaps some experience with aromatherapy, and pretty much an attempt to satiate my hunger for knowledge, through changing world-models, breaking through to other ways of thinking, call it Satori or Samādhi or Zen, or other suiting parables/metaphors for deeper understanding, and freeing oneself from the rigid thinking of the primate brain (again, replace with suiting metaphor or model)


Cheers

hey, brand new to the whole pua scene, but consider myself a natural at the extent of female attention, but have blown many chances of full closing many girls, i mean im 20 n my scores 18-19 i lost count when i went on a lil bit of a rampage, but i think sealing the deal with a hb9 hb10 needs a certain amount of game and patterns and can defo see myself gettin more into the pua scene, anyways, me and a friend have made a pack and are going for it 2gether, my openings coming along and just wondering what the pros think

me) excuse me, i need a womens opinion
hb) umm ok
me) well, i dno what film 2 watch, im in a pretty indecisive mood,
hb) ok what are the choices?
me) there pretty endless actually,
me) whats your fav films... ?
hb) etc etc titanic, hairspray etc etc
me) titantic... u sure babe some1s got 2 like it i spose
hb) haha
me) so whats hairspray about then, never actually seen it ?
hb) etc etc etc
me) ah might have 2 watch it, im blaming ur taste if its bad btw
hb) haha
me) well i spose ur taste aint 2 bad, ur talkin 2 me

then move on2 another routine like rollercoasters etc

its pretty much works n set the foundations for got repour but as i said, im a newb to the whole pua so thought id get the pros opinions and maybe a lil direction ...

but yea, my aims are;
1)to feel confident in any situation i find myself in with the opposite sex
2) to be able to control peoples perceptions of me within a situation
3) to be the guy that other guys say... how the hell did he do that
4) to have fun, and enjoy being young and single without anything holding me back

To get over these bullshit ass confidence issues I have.

I really dont even wanna Pick up that much, I honestly Like One girl better than how ever many else long as that one girl meets my standards (which are pretty high, & specific, So I might actually be playing pick up for a while)

& I wanna learn how to have that ability to pull w/e girl I want, even if I dont nesicarliy use it.

guess its an ego thing a little...

It's quite interesting and difficult to think and get together what you actually want and expect from the whole PUA thing. This thread made me to think about it:

What we all probably know is that it's not that much just about sex itself. If you were a billionaire and thus was able to buy all the whores in the world you still wouldn't be probably satisfied after some time. That's also what helps (next to stress and other shit) so many whatever-stars still being depressed, drug/alcohol addicted and just unhappy.

What has always been my problem was not the lack of girls I could attract but the mid-game switching to kino and kiss-close. I mean I am able to do good jokes and react but I have never had the balls to swich-phase, start kino and lead the game further to the end.

The irony is that I could be able to do it smoothly till the end only with the girls I didn't feel any respect for. The girls that you know you are so far beyond their intelectual skills you can play with them like a rabbit in a cage. But, everytime I really met a girl that I would have liked to start a longer realtionshoip with ("the same wave" girls) I lost my balls to break the fucking frozen phase. I felt so much respect I couldn't go kino - I was too afraid of loosing her. So finally these cases always ended up with the fucking LJBF talk. I was desperate cuz I only fucked and dated the girls I were not interested in at all (though many of them were hot but fucking boring and usless for relationship).

So, my aim in the game is to be able to get a girl that I REALLY like and respect. To be able to fuck her brain out same as the one's you don't give a shit about.

Wow these are some awesome goals! You guys have really inspired me towards mine as well.

My goal is to love women as they are and show them how great we as men can become. I want to make many women feel loved, excited, protected and sexual all at the same time. I was taught by an amazing women what it means to treat somebody as an ends in themselves, as opposed to a means to an end and I want to do that for every women I meet because I know how much better life is after feeling that.

I also want to shape myself into a great man that I dream of becoming.

my goals are
1. quality, quantity and variety.
2. girls offering their numbers to me instead of me having to get them.
3. being able to get numbers and/or k-closes with girls in everyday situations i.e uptown at lunchbreak.
4. to walk through groups of girls and make them think ''fuck, he's attractive'' without even paying them the slightest bit of attention.

i think these are possible and with the help of you guys i will reach them, and once i reach them i will set the bar even higher.

MPUA ALL THE WAY

I've got my shit down, the only thing left would be the perfect 10 girlfriend.