and its one of my only ones...

I been reading threw alot of this shit, & my game is pretty decent, I realized that I know what I'm doing alot more than I thought I did, I've been noticing alot of the articles about certain things describe what I already do, just maybe with more intent, where I do it as just like part of my personality.

game wise, I just need a lil polishing, but my biggest problem is confidence, & I cant seem to get over it. AA Never used to be a big deal, I used to aproach with little hesitation, but I had this stint with depression & anxiety that got really bad, & I'm mostly done with it, but like areas like Aproaching females are hard as hell for me, cuz now I get like an instant freeze before I can even attempt, its like stage fright.

So does anyone know of any possible excersise or something that could help me push threw this process? or do I just have to suck it up & take it head on?

Confidence is the most important thing you need in your game. You have to know your are fuckin awesome. If you dont have confidence you're going to come off as incongruent, and chicks can sense that. Im no expert, but gaining confidence has helped me out a lot.

I recently attended a workshop, and heres some of the advice I learned:

1) Get out of your comfort zone. If your comfort level is at a 5 do something on a level that will make you out of your comfort zone. Keep progressing until its nearly impossible for you to be out of your comfort zone.

2) Dont think about approaching a chick. Just do it. You see a chick and she is hot. GO!. Think this interaction is going to be boring or interesting and im going to find out in the first 10 seconds.

yeah, I realized that... everything else seems almost optional compared to confidence, Cuz I've seen some weak game/Ugly ass dudes slide wit good lookin girls before.

I'm gonna make this my main prioriety tho, cuz I think If I was confident enough to take more risks and be unapologetic and bold in the way I do it. I could go far cuz My minds usually in the right place.

the best way to get over this is get a wingman. go to a mall and pick targets for each other where he has to appraoch right away the target you choose

yeah ^ I'll try that.

I been doing little things to try an adapt to speaking to strangers, like saying Hi when I'm normally to myself, just doing my own thing, & I do this thing where I try to not break eye contact with any girl I see looking.

yesterday it didnt go too bad actually, I got some ioi's I didnt expect. I'ma just gradully try to bring it from these lil staring contests, & hi's to conversations, and number closes.

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