Hey guys,
recently i went in a club. However, as the club wasnt full I wanted to leave with my wingman. On the way out there was this girl that was really having long eye contact with me, she approached me, she said: that she knew me from facebook (i am a friend of her best friend). Later she danced with me , and was really into me.
This is really the first time that something like that happend to me. I didnt even use any "pua skills" as she was pushing everything to the next level.
However, at that time i wasnt sure if she was right for me so i did not k-close her.
A day later she added me on facebook. And i feel kind of bad that i did not take it any further.
what should i do next. what should i write in a facebookmail to her, so taht we can meet again ???

By the way , she supposedly has a "boyfriend" , so i dont know if her attraction in the club was a 1time thing.

If you decide to open her don't try and make up for lost time. It will just push her away. She's obviously still into you but you're somewhat starting the attraction again.

Say something like "Hey your last pickup attempt at me was just mediocre, I've decided to give you another shot. I'm going to this [event/club] on [date] with some buddies and figured that would be your best shot. Don't disappoint me "

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Why K-close her? Just the fact that you didn't may have created huge attraction.
Think about it man. You're being a natural showing some selectiveness and she probably picked up on that. That's a good thing. Then she added you to her facebook.

I think you have the big advantage here, she's actually persueing you. Keep that chemistry going.

Hey guys, thx for your tips, i wrote her and asked her out for last friday. However she said she wasnt in town. But she was reall happy that i wrote her an meassgae. Now 3 day later she wrote me agian : „arent you gonne write me anymore “. what should i respond guys.?

' Ya know my mom always said don't talk to strangers.. but you seem okay? So yeah I guess we can write. '

and just out of curiousity.. if you used that dancing line.. what did she say back to it?

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Hey Gander
She replied to my message (that you composed):
“oh, ok that is nice of you
I already feared that I had too many minus points (--see note belowe)
I am not in town over the weekend … but maybe we could reschedule some other time
Here is my number
1111111”

ps: in the club where I met here I said I give here minus points because she smoked (it’s a neg)

Thx again Gander. That was really a nice message you gave me. Some of my buddy’s thought that too
And also thx for second text : ' Ya know my mom always said don't talk to strangers.. but you seem okay? So yeah I guess we can write. '
But Gander, do you have any other idea what additionally I should write? Or is that all I should respond? Maybe I could write something like this additionally: “Quiz question: vodka or coke? Don’t mess it up you are playing for a point”
And then when she responds with an answer I am gone be: “ right choice: you just won yourself the chance to buy me (that drink, coke or vodka) on Friday”

→ on Friday my friend has a big party and so I could take her there ?

Gander what do you think???
Thx again for all the help!

Me personally that's all I would say.. She's already into you by suggesting you meet up again (I personally won't ask a girl out again if she says she can't at that time and then doesn't say something like but I would love to another time) AND giving you her number.

Don't try and make her qualify herself too much or it actually works in reverse. I'd Wait for her reply to that.

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How'd it Go?

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well thx for all the tips guys and they really worked... however, i realized that the girl was a bit wired and not my type :S

Firstly congratulations... most guys still chase girls like this in attempt to F-close them.. its good to have standards.

Ganders got some good tips.. nice little suggestions I might have to steal them Gander