I haven't busted yet during sex, so my sessions go for quite a long time.

Last weekend from (roughly) 1 - 3 am

On friday (roughly) 2:30 - 6:30 am
Saterday (roughly) 12 - 1 pm

By the end her thighs were absolutely sore and useless.

We txted back and forth today (monday) and she said her legs are still sore. Im afraid I'm going to hurt the poor girl.

Improvements I will try is using pillows below her lower back, and use more the edges of the bed so her legs bend on the floor, but really I have very little idea of how to improve all this.

Any pointers will come in handy

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if you wanna bust, then you gotta be into it. i kinda had this problem too. try talking nasty, thats always a good idea and yes, the pillow under lower back is a good idea

Give her an orgasm or more, then have her ride you. If you find that helps.
(It may help to tense up your body, especially in the lower body)

or try different ways of fucking (even the basic missionary has several alternatives, like stretching your legs out, keeping your body stiff and resting on your elbows, using your hands to pull her down on your cock, or stuff like that.)
It all comes down to finding a position you can really enjoy, and going for it.

Or start doing Tantra
Remove the chasing of orgasms, and keep her on the verge of coming, but never letting her come, until you decide it's time.


I've had some issues with extended sexual encounters (what a nice, clean way of saying fucking for hours on end) but it hasn't bothered the women as long as I've varied the fucking.

Also, mind you, the woman can get urinary tract infection from fucking too hard, too much and/or with too large dicks.


I usually try to limit the sex to anything between one half hour to 2 hours. depending on the mood.
With the goal of giving her 1-3 orgasms, and giving myself 1-2 orgasms, depending on the mood.


btw, Her being sore, is not necessarily a bad thing.
It's more often a compliment.
if she texts you "I'm still sore, " it's good.

but, hey, make some noise, tense up, turn her mad on, and vary the sex so she doesn't lie on her back for hours on end.
No worries, Sex is Fun, and more Sex is more Fun


You won't destroy her, so just keep on fuckin'.



btw; I assume she has orgasms ?

Will try to vary the sex as much as possible guys, thanks a lot for the advice. And so that I can finally climax, will talk dirty too!!

About the "i assume she has orgasms?".... my answer is more of a question.

Cliche right, but I'm not sure.

I get her wet whilst giving her head, but only a little, so doubt that is an orgasm, or at least not a potent one like Id like it to be.

After sex the condom is sticky white from the outside, so I assume she must have cum. But not certain.

I think I need to get her to be less self concious so she can relax too and have orgasms. (Im most certain that if she gets more potent orgasms, it will help me bust as well)

An example of her being self-concious:
Sometimes when I do a deep Eye contact and smile, she covers my smile with her hands and says, "Stop that! I get self conscious."

I compliment her and say she needs to learn how to take a compliment. (which is weird because I find her atractive as hell, and so do my friends)

I think its time I give her my attempt of a sensual massage. Hopefully make her cum more. But more importantly, about the soreness, thanks for all the comments guys, will take it in.

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