So I was making out with this girl, and was just about to stick my cock in her... And then came to my senses that I dont practice unsafe sex, because I dont need the thought of contracting something on my mind

So I stopped , got up and grabbed a condom without saying anything(this could have been a mistake) I then started to put it on, and then she stopped me. I could have fucked her If I didnt go for the condom, but thats not worth it. So the second time we made out and things got to that point, I asked shoudl I get a condom(Stupid me!) and she shook her head! I dont want this to become a habit!

So I'm wondering how do I F Close, practicing safe sex! are there any articles on this?

#1 Don't ask, just assume it's going to happen, and do what you must. When you ask you take her out of the emotional experience and make her think logically. That answer usually ends up as No.

I don't think the problem here is really so much that the condom was the issue other than she wasn't ready to have sex yet. You encounted some basic LMR (Last minute resistence) so search for that to practice up on. Most of the time you can just plow through.

She'll say stuff like "I don't think we should." And you say, "You're right we probably shouldn't be." While continuing to escalate. You just let it glance off you like it's no big deal.

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I agree it sounds like LMR but the condom wasnt the prob...it was the delay. She was in the zone then there was a second for her to reconsider. Next time just go with the flow and just rip one open as if you both knows its gonna happen

Keep your condoms by your bed and one in your wallet. Then just reach over and pick one up.

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You could always go stealth. if you're under the covers, slip it on while you're warming her up and that way there's no delay for her to start thinking with her head instead of listening to her body.

I've had this exact same problem before and I did exaclty what that guy said I actually wasn't a PUA at the time and this is what I thought up all on my own I kept condoms within arms reach of my bed and whenever we got warmed up I sneaked one on so when it came to doing the dead I just plunged in.

necrophliac

Yeah, always wear a condom lad, this chick is probably riddled with std's if she doesn't make ask you to. Go get checked out.

Future tips, remember girls aren't different to fella's they can lose their hornyness alot more quickly than us lads, so the key to doing this is to make the transition as smooth as possible.

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If you give her head, chances are she will want to go pee after it.

Put the condom on while she is out so then all you have to do is literally put it in her.

Or any other interruption, stick in the condom, but do not be too obvious.


If no interruptions come, then you go to the toilet and put one on. Come back wearing at least boxers, so its not too obvious.

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If she's reved up enough you shouldn't have that problem, dude. You have to do more foreplay than just making out, fingerbang her a little and she'll be the one begging for sex.