Hey guys. Fairly new at this. Sorry about the length of this but I wanted to provid as much detail as possible to get as accurate an explanation as I can. I feel like if I don't understand what is going on I can't progress my learning. I've never really been great at interacting with HB's or social situations in general. I started incorporating some of Lance Mason's techniques on physical confidence and David D's wealth of psychological advice and saw my life pull a major 180. I've learned so much in 2 months of in-field trial and error it still amazes me... now I've hit a concrete wall. One drunken night I added HB8 from work I had seen around but never actually met on myspace. I had a blog entitled "There is no wrong way to bite a woman." She comments to me that she agrees 100% so we start writing each other a little. I remark that I have to go to work but she can text me and sure enough she texts me like crazy. Using conversation techniques I'd learned the text quickly turned dirty. Really dirty. I get home from work and she's sent me a picture of a girl's wrists chained up. Saw her the next day at work and introduced myself properly, still playing little text games throughout the day. Was quite certain I had it in the bag. Invited her to watch a movie at my house, she agreed, then flaked with no text or explanation so I went out with friends and stopped texting her. The next night at 2am she texts me about something really dumb. I say "shouldn't you be asleep?" she says "I am in bed now" so I respond "Don't talk dirty to me I'm not in the mood." She responds "Lol I am laying next to my bf." So I hit back with "Then you REALLY shouldn't be talking dirty to me." And then I get "Nah it doesn't matter haha." I'm not sure if I read this right but it seemed like a chain of text shit tests.

ME: "This doesn't strike me as a relationship with a lot staying power..."
HB8: "Fuck him I do what i want."
forgot what I said here... and oh yeah forgot to mention she is separated going through a divorce as well.
HB8: "I am still married, have a bf, and I am talking to a guy at work. Do you think I'm a slut?"
ME: "I slept with a friend's wife and another friend's fiance. Do you think I'm a slut?"
HB8: "what do you want from me?"
ME: "I just want to make you feel really good. I'm a good samaritan."
HB8: "How do you plan to do that?"

after this the text turns dirty again ending with her telling me about playing with herself and looking forward to me showing her some things at work the next day. The next day I get no texts. I run into her and talk to her for a few minutes. She seems slightly apprehensive to kino, which I was doing from the start, but not totally resistant so I decide to back off. Interaction felt a little awkward and I got no texts so I just didn't text at all that day. Next morning I have a text from her, again something dumb just for the sake of making contact. I go to work. Run into her and she's working in the back stacking boxes but I ignore her and talk to others near her. She starts talking to me and we banter a bit. I start walking away and she says "Can you do me a favor and get this box for me it's heavy..." I keep walking and just say "Use them muscles girl you can do it." As I'm walking away she yells "Grow some balls!" I walked off. It got to me. Minutes later I text her something playful about her talking about my balls. No response. I stopped caring and I text "I'm not your bf and I don't have to play nice. I'll beat your ass." She texts back instantly "I'm just kidding no need for violence." and then "I'm going to buy something then take my break if you care to join me." I show up 15 minutes later, sit across from her at the table and initiate "footsies" which she reciprocates and is giving IOI's like crazy. Scratches wrists, neck, and face. And chainsmokes like mad, which another girl pointed out to her. Then I get up and leave. Later, before she leaves for the day, she texts saying she is smoking again in the break room. I say I can only stay for a minute and I go. I sit down next to her, cornering her next to the wall where her friends who are chatting to her can't see. She crosses her legs and puts one very close to me, so I start lightly caressing her exposed calf. She turns as red as the kool aid man and gives the IOI's all over again. Her friend makes a remark about being "flushed" while giving her a knowing smile. We leave, I continue to give her workplace-friendly kino while chatting on her way out. She leaves, texting me a few minutes later saying "OK homework time my dear talk later." no texts after that. that was yesterday. i text her today (she was off) but get limited responses or one-word answers, so I just drop it again. Sorry again for the length... but if I can't figure this out I am going to go insane. Every time I think I have it figured out, it goes cold on me and I'm stumped. Theories? Suggestions? ANYTHING will be helpful... what the hell is going on here?[/emff]

nice little post if i was u i would single space the lines lol but yea dude i would drop her she sounds like she is just toying around hate to say it

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Sounds like you are both toying around with no forward momentum.

I think she wants to fuck. You need to take charge though. Ask her what she's doing after work, then TELL her, "We're going _____"

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i like the sound of that. i'll go all in tomorrow and see what happens.

update on this. she said the bf went through her texts and got upset and dumped her. she came over that night and stayed the weekend in my bed.

jajaja good for u