so this new girl at work started today. I kid you not, every guy in the entire store hits on her at all times, like really bad. Shes seems friendly and plays along with it, not sure if shes really flirting back or not. Anywho, I havent met her yet, but I dont wanna make a bad first impression. Should I open with some C&F, opinion, what?! I need to make a awesome first impression, and probably a little neg considering shes so hot she gets so much attention. I dont wanna ignore her or be overly rude since shes new at work and she might take me for a jerk. Whats some good stuff to do, and especially need a good opening line!

She has soooo much guy attention, I really just wanna come across as cool friendly, potential mate, and most importantly, not just another random horny guy hitting on her.


Oh and lastly, everytime I see a girl like this, I get really excited, then start to think I have no chance and get really depressed and dont feel like talking to anyone. How can I fix this? I need a quick fix for my inner game just before I talk to her.

And no, the work connection isnt a problem, Im getting a new job soon.

Hmmm, before thinking that being too rude can blow you out of the water, check out style's article on active disinterest in the forum on venusianarts.com , it's an archived post, in the classic posts section, under style(obviously). I'm impressed with the theory, now I just need some HB9/10s and a bigger pair of balls.