Soooo yeah. I met this girl like 3 weeks ago and we went on a few dates. First one was good, second one was good, last one I pretty much screwed up, I was really quiet and couldnt think of any good material, cf or anything to use on her. Anywho, Ive tried getting kisses from her whenever I leave. I always tell her how shes so rude not to give me a kiss goodbye, tease her a little etc. But she always says no, you have a gf! And I was like, and if I didnt? And she was like I dunno.. I do btw... Anywho, then I usually screw it up by begging her. But last time we hung out, I didnt ask for one. How should I go about getting one next time?

First, don't try to get that kiss at the end of a date... you know the one... in the car... waiting outside her place. F-that. You kiss when the feeling is right. Escalate kino while on the date until it feels that you SHould be kissing. Once you get that feeling do the traingle gaze until she feels that way too. Then pull the mystery "Do you wanna kiss me?" or something like that.

As it is now. You have been on Multiple dates with her and you have SOI'ed right? You should have a kiss within the first 7 hours of face time. After that it goes down hill in chances.


If you MUST have a kiss at the end of the date... point to your cheek and say "Goodnight kiss." Almost every woman will give you a kiss on the cheek and it will still keep that SOI alive and IF she refuses cause of your GF then just say "And you think my GF would begrudge me a kiss on the cheek!?!?"

anyway thats my take on it.

EvoJ

First mistake. She knows you have a GF......
wow and you are trying to figure this out?

Brother, firstly I'm not to keen on the idea that you are trying to seduce another girl while you have one of your own, but to each his own, and its not my place to judge you. So for advice, you're going about getting the kiss wrong. You're giving her control of the interaction by saying she is rude for not giving you a kiss. As was already stated, the first kiss should be within the first 7 hours of interaction, and should seem to her spontaneous, and just the most natural thing in the world. To you though, it should be one of many points in your kino escalation. I personally prefer the evolution phase shift kiss close the gist of which is: smell her, grab hair, touch elbow, touch back of knee, bite elbow, bite my neck, bite her neck, triangular gazing, kiss.
I honestly don't know if this stuff will still work with her after so much time, but just take her out (don't ask her, take her; control the situation) somewhere fun, maybe even kind of silly and just start the kino escalation early. Try this, when you pick her up, she picks you up, you meet, get a hug from her, then just turn your head to the side and point at your cheek, indicating a friendly peck. I don't think I've ever had a girl refuse this. Then just start the kino ladder from there, once you've got enough kino built up, just try the evolution phase shift kiss routine. Good luck (as if luck has anything to do with it) buddy.

3 date? Ur 2 late.

You really wanna handle it? Reality check her.

"Yeah I have a gf, but that doesn't seem to stop you from coming out with me?"
Either you'll get what you want, or if she lacks confidence she'll flip out.

NEVER EVER BEG FOR SOMETHING. "What if I didn't?" <--- I cringed when I read that.

As far as running out of material? The material is the last thing you need, you are making it sound like you are out to entertain her here. You only need to do that in the first 5 minutes...if then. Kick her off the pedestool, she needs to prove to you she worthy of all this attention you are giving her. Something tells me you haven't made her do so. Make her Earn that kiss you want, then you might even get more than you bargained for

and dont try to get get her to kiss u by tellin her she is rude.. then when she does kiss u.. it will be a pitty kiss

man just do it , do it at the time when you feel the vibe.

If she still dosent want to Kiss, f... her , leave her along, dump her. And move on to the next TARGET.






Magic J