I think im falling into the trap of making a girl see some potential and holding back the sex/fun…ahhh.

Met this girl at century room a month ago and we have talked on the phone and went out two times since. The first night was quick and the second time we went for Indian food and I paid for the dinner and it was such a formal setting. Uggggh, it felt like such a date,,haha

Anyways, the first night she came in for a quick kiss when I dropped her off home and I went in for a hug so she kissed the side of my lip…akward!!! The second date we were walking and she mentioned how her friend does random things so I stopped and said “you wanna see what else is random?” leaned in 90% of the way and she leaned in the next 10% and we had a quick kiss, but she pulled off and we started walking again…it was very cold too.

She admits to being inpatient and shes like full of energy so it get uncomfortable when we stop talking and just sit there., maybe its just me. Haha, oh yes and she get uncomfortable if I look at her like if shes drinking tea or if I just stare at her. (she seems uncomfortable at times).

But when I dropped her off last night she came in for the kiss, and when she broke off I said, come here and we kissed very quickly some more but she broke off again.
She is interested, but I can tell shes kinda nervous. But she defiantly has been around and tells me from her stories….so shes kinda holding back her sexy self and I wanto bring that out.

She lives in TO and I go and pick her up and we usually go out so I need to find a way to get back to her place or maybe tell her to take the go train down to my area.

One more thing is that it seems like I have to put a lot of energy to talk and talk and she does talk and talk too, but were both high energy and it would nice to be able to just chill and be able to just like kick back and ppl watch. lol

Any advice on this guys?

Sounds to me like she's putting up her own slut defense mechanism.

Really work to build an emotional connection.

Run a game like the cube, do something other than dinner. I find walking through a park, talking and holding hands is great for building the emotional connection.

Make sure you push and pull. Two steps forward, one step back. Make sure she knows you aren't like every other guy, who wants a one night stand.

The cube is a perfect game to run because you already know so much about her.

Off the top of my head from reading your post...

Tell her she's really outgoing and energetic, but you can tell sometimes she just wants to hang out and keep it cool.

Tell her she's had a good time with guys, but its clear that she wants more then that bla bla bla

Let me know how that works.