I met this gorgeous half white half latin girl at a club about 5 weeks ago. I got her number. I texted her the first time to tell her to have a good night, that night. I get a response 2 days later, "thanks hun". So I'm like, uhhhh ok. Then about 3 or 4 days later, mid-week, she texts me "hey hun" and we txt back and forth for a good hour. As soon as I ask her what she's up to that weekend, after she tells me, and I make an initiation to hang out, no more response. So I just say fuck it whatever. Next week she texts me again, "hey babe whats going on", we chat a bit, I ask her what she's doing on Friday and as soon as that happens no more response. I forget about her and move on again. Next week, SAME THING. Now she's texting me daily and no response every time I mention hanging out!

It's been 5 weeks, no hanging out, yet SHE keeps texting me over and over! Tonight she did it again and I just said well that sounds like fun have a good night ttyl.

WTF is this chick's deal? If she's not interested in hanging out why does she keep texting me all the time? And then not responding when I make a move to hang out.

Oh the very first time we texted she did say that she'd like to hang out. After that it's always no response.

she has no real attachment for you. you're just entertainment for her when shes bored. shes waiting in an elevator, "oh i can text completepimp and play head games with him while i wait for my floor." best thing to do is freeze her out. next time she texts you, dont text back. to me it sounds like this girl needs a long freezeout. i would ignore the first text. if she text you again in the next few days asking where youve been or why you havent texted back, just text back saying that you've been extra busy lately, but you have a few hours fri/sat/sun (you choose a day, dont give her options), she could join you for lunch. notice you're allowing her to join you for lunch, you're not asking her for anything. your mindset should not to be apart of her life, but allowing her to step into yours. if she doesnt want to catch lunch with you that day i say just drop it.

couldn't have said it better myself.

it sounds like u r in a perfect "i dont care what happens" position so be forward as hell. Just send a "DTF 2nite?" text and see what she replies. If its a bad reply just be like "well, you had your chance" shell text later and again just be forward

stevie and danny are right dude. you gotta make her feel like she's missin out. dont let her play with you, and be straight forward

I would send her a text that says. Listen, we are either going to hang out within the next week or I am erasing your number.
Do not let her play with you like that. Girls like attention and you are just giving it to her.
Send that text now!!

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I'm in the same situation with one girl. She loves to talk to me online and texts me, but as soon as I mention hanging out she stops or changes subject.

I tried freezing out, she missed me, but didn't work.

This thread is eye-opening.

My birthday is coming, so I'll just text her "We're hanging out before my birthday or I'll delete your number."

Nothing to lose anyway. Who wants a girl that never hangs out with you?

"Listen hun, i dont know what kinda phone plan u got, but ur clogging up my phone bill. Either come to XXX bar or ima have to delete ur number "



maybe thats a bit too serious...but still along those lines

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Looks like she doesn't care. I'm glad I did this because I was only wasting my time.

I texted her ""We're hanging out before my birthday or I'll delete your number and your MSN."

She said she would hang out with me today. And today I had this conversation on Facebook:
ME: "Will you go today?"
HER: "No, I'll go to the farm after lunch :/"
ME: "Ok. You had your chance..."
HER: "¬¬"
ME: "Yes, I was being serious."
HER: "Alright."

Should I delete her MSN (I can't start a convo but she can), block her MSN (She can't start a convo) or just ignore? How would you guys do it?

Now your threatening her to hang out with you
Could you be even more needy
Just walk away the girl's not interested

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My thoughts exactly. Giving her an ultimatum or threat is NOT the way to make her want to hang out with you... that will just turn her off even more. It doesn't sound like she's seriously interested, and I wouldn't dwell on it.

I agree. You're just a diversion to her when she's online and bored. I have FB friends like this. I'm okay with it really because they're only a diversion to me that I can practice my bantering skills on. Don't be an AFC. If the highlight ofthere Internet session isn't the secret wish and fantasy of *meeting* you, then you're doing something wrong. I have a handful of girls I have met online who I know for a fact can't wait to hear from me. If you can't say the same then try a different approach then the one your using. Anyone can do it if they're willing to radically step out of their comfort zone and follow a few simple suggestions.

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Regarding the girl from the club: Ditto to what was said about her being bored in the elevator. She's toying with you like a cat with a mouse. She has NO interest in meeting you or she would have by now. No offense, but if you're still hanging on to the hope of some girl you met at a club over a month ago is going to realizebshe wants to hang, then I'm willing to bet your not out sarging enough. GFTOG and then let us know if you have the same take on this girl.

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