Latest update guys. I think this is still on the cards. I decided to put this and maintain my original frame of not believing her. She's still holding out but obviously still interested!

So I put:

"in real life, you'd be all shy and giggles like most girls x"

She replied with:

"u av no idea haha! x"

I was thinking on say number closing this now but what is the right approach without f-ing this up? You guys have been so help, can you help me a little more?

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OK guys, here is the latest update. I'm at risk now of being boring. Ihave tried really hard to maintain the frame of being slightly older, alpha and treating her like a little sister. She keeps replying, I think she knows it and she's caving a little. I'm not sure how much attraction is there on her part but I do feel its time to strike and get that number close?


Me: actually I think I do you're itching to show me x

08 March at 17:56
Her: to show u wot? x

08 March at 18:08
Me: That I have no idea and that you're unpredictable x Kelly Poole

08 March at 22:44
Her: haha x

09 March at 13:38
Me: I'll assume I'm right and leave it at that

09 March at 14:04
Her: leave wot at that? am confused x

09 March at 14:24
Me: leave this conversation at that lol ...am bored x

09 March at 15:20
Her: yeah i cn understand that u seem reali boarin n dull x

09 March at 15:48
Me: you're like a clingy g/f who wont put the phone down lol..give up! x

09 March at 17:19
Her: clingy haha god u av no idea and yet u keep replyin and u mesaged me first stalker! x


09 March at 18:23
Me: lol see x


Today at 09:17
Her: wot kind of reply is that bt u just ad t rite bk didnt u! obsessed haha x

Today at 14:31
Me: lol *yawns* little girls and their games...

...I'll admit you're feisty tho xx

Today at 16:56
Her: oh daz wot do u want me 2 say a little banter wi u britens up ma day ha x
I'm pretty sure she would have had to go on my profile to see that others call me daz!

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I' want you to try and experiment yourself but I'll help once more to try and get her to tighten her grip on that rope see's holding. She isn't chasing you mate and if she isn't doing that she isn't interested. Simples!

Come on, be creative and stop being Boring, I know you can be interesting and fun. Cut that thread by running this routine: PVC Devil which i've slighty edited for this online convo.

'Oh, well Miss fiesty! You know what I would do with you to brighten up my day? I would dress you up....in a red..PVC.. *devil* outfit.. You'd have little horns that flash... and a tail... bitch boots... oh yeh and a pitch fork!! I'd roll with you on my arm down the street.. I can just picture it, every girl would be totaly jealous of you.."

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If you think you dare not, you don't.
If you think you'll lose, you've lost.
--It's all in the STATE OF MIND--

ok cloud you said it so now ive done it! At first i thought eh, this is too much of a change of tact but then again, f*** it! lol, i think im startin to like the idea of direct game more lol

My only worry is that it's a bit too direct but who cares, im taking the attitude that im not bothered if i cock each one of these attempts up, its just learning.

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Using your name in that fashion is a massive IOI. by fashion I mean its gone beyond salutation. She thinking of you as an individual not a random stranger. use of people's names indicates value. Salepeople use names to imply their customers have that. This indicates greater rapport than perhaps you realise.With this in mind stepping it up some more into direct should not be a problem.

I dont think i like your last message. I might have said

"Too bad you dont brighten up mine lol,
But maybe you will in person "

Or something along those lines.

Odookie that is the type of responce I was going to go with. I would continue the push pull thing but...

I went with what cloud put. I think it was a gamble and here is her reply lol:

"jealous ov wot? x"

So maybe I've got away with it. I'm not sure if this means anything, but she replied at 3:17 am lol, maybe she was dreaming hehe

I think I need to close this one way or another, in my interpretation of the game, especially from what i have read on online sarging, she's going to get bored pretty soon. This one is 34 messages long which is not good

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Exactly who cares, you shouldn't care and if you do mess it up, heh. her loss!

Talk about playing hard to get or not chasing, is she totally thick?, naturally blonde? or yes maybe she was drunk when she replied. Hey in fact you could use that in your reply

She isn't buying your frame, the conversation goes dull because of her, if you answer her reply u've just jumped into hers and that's what she wants, hoping you will break.

I guess it's been long enough, take your chances and either invite her along to something fun or close for the number, what you say and what you do is your decision. Be upfront, Be Direct and Be the man!

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If you think you are beaten, you are.
If you think you dare not, you don't.
If you think you'll lose, you've lost.
--It's all in the STATE OF MIND--

Well this is the last post in this forum it seems, time to graduate up to proper gaming lol.

Me: lol ur so blonde x ive got a meeting with (Company I really have recently had a meeting with near her) wednesday and they're based right by that xscape place, come grab a drink wi me...it will hav 2b a quick 1 tho x

Her: yer y not im sure my boyfriend wont mind!! x

lol I sense a little bit of a shit test in that boyfriend thing but oh well. Cheers guys for helping me on this and in particular cloud!

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Hmm... weird she now brings up his boyfriend
I would say just ignore it, pretend she didnt even
mention him (its most likely just a shit test and even
if its not, she might go anyway).. I would say go ahead
and get her number

I would say.

"Yea he probaly wont mind.
You never know he might even give you away
(then finish it with some kind of number close like)
Whats your number, lets exchage numbers etc.

Not the best but i think good enough.

Well she did accept your invite, the boyfriend thing is probably just a bluff.

“Great...ofcourse he won't mind, Just two friends getting together! Fling us your number to BLAH BLAH“

Oh yeah and If she does turn up, give her a right good jab from me haha!

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If you think you are beaten, you are.
If you think you dare not, you don't.
If you think you'll lose, you've lost.
--It's all in the STATE OF MIND--