Hey everybody, hope i'm posting in the right section.
I'm having a couple of problems with a weird girl.

The story goes like this:
I have met this girl through my social circle, and i found out that none of my friends ever saw her with a boyfriend, and they know her for the past 8 years. I've recieved IOI's from this girl, went on and dated her, had a great first date, i have built some good rapport and connection. Had the second date with her, an unique one also. Good time.

THE PROBLEM is that she is pretty much indifferent WHEN we're not dating. 3 weeks , 1 month can pass easily without talking to her, texts, online, or anything. After the second date, she messaged me that night. But then again, nothing for as long as i don't make a move. This really pisses me off, i'm not a needy guy to keep texting or running after her ass, without her actually moving a damn finger. Her attitude COMPLETELY throws me off balance, however when i'm out with her she's having a great time, she looks at me all the time with those puppy eyes , and everything.
This is the same reason i haven't kclosed yet.
She's not the HB kind, she's the cute and beautiful small girl that you can develop one-itis on

In my oppinion i played the game right. Saw the IOIs, TOOK her, not ASKED her out, built attraction, comfort, then i layed off a little. She's into "the game" for that day, but then that's all. She goes underground. I do the same move, but nothing is happening from her side.

If you have a clue about how show i proceed, please help
Thanks in advance!

One tip, she admitted that she grow up as a spoiled kid. Maybe she just grew up acting passive, recieving everything without acting.

Bump for help

I have look at this thread a few times (I admit). However, I actually found this slightly hard to answer because I am not you/in your shoes with all your information.

First is first, try not to develop one-itis, as it's extremely clear she has not.

Now, you've mentioned the fact that she's a spoiled to an extent and is used to getting things her way, so she expects you to fall into her lap. Well here this theory: she may actually take you as not being interested...here's why: you haven't tried to get physical with her. Kiss her, touch her, get her going. Hell, do her if the opportunity arises. Chances are you wont be able to stop her if you do it right and once you do trigger that in her, she'll feel a sexual attraction to you which can reverse the chase. Basically it sounds like she made you tied to her but not the same. You must find a way to "tie" her to you some how. Sexually is always awesome.

Thanks a lot for the reply! I know this is hard to reply, this is very complicated even for me, and i know all the details. However this girl really got me thinking where i'm going wrong, my last recent games went flawless, ending with f-closes. But this girl, damn However, it seems that at the moment i'm the only boy who got this far with her. And she is 21, i'm 23.

You may be right about the physical part, i haven't got the chance to escalade kino.

I sent you a PM, let me know when you get/read it.

encountering similar problem but on a different level

been seeing this girl for a few weeks, i slept with her on the second date, however it feels like i am always initiating dates, time together etc etc

once its done we get together have a great time have great sex etc but it always seems to be me, me who texts me who calls, like i leave it a few days and no response so i just either call or text and tell her what we are going to do i never ask if she is free or if she wants to etc etc, we hook up and its done

but yeah i am kinda scratching my head a bit

I'm living EXACTLY the same situation with the exact same type of girl. Had 2 great dates with her but the same problem occurs, she doesn't initiate contact (like you said, she seems indifferent WHEN we are not together. Haven't tried to k-close because of that.

I'm thinking about escalating kino next time, like Sun of Nothing said...

Did it work for you?

omg. im going thru that same situation! im the one always initiating stuff. she's a sweet girl and all, and i could care less, but it feels like i've got unfinished business with her lol

Sunofnothing, could you PM me as well? i really wanna crack this girl!!

hey did you guys crack your girls at all? howd you make it so she was initiating the contact?