A little too much like a cheesy pickup line to me. As far as things working you just have to go with the success rate. I mean if I confidently walked up to 100 club girls and said, "Hi. I'm Jon wanna go home and fuck." about 5-10 would say Yes on the spot.

Just go with what gets you results. If it is working for you then use it. If you aren't seeing any success then STOP, and try again.

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Hey man hows it going? I just got back from a party where my reality game is flowing fantastic ...however i though and had to ask.

Ok am going to basically break it down.
1....I message here telling her to in basic tell me three thing about herself that would interest me, for her to qualify herself.
2....Then i go with a so why you on here (followed by a funny reason she might be online)
3.... I tell her am way to bad ass for her and she wouldn't be no good in a bank robbery.
4. i start askign questions about her and talk about myself..
Once am past here she usually ends up getting lucky.

However am i asking too much too soon?, more negs (obvoiusly depending on the feel) ?
Is it advisible that i go for a DHV story between those stages???
Thanks man..
As alwasy much love
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Not bad at all.

Be careful with negs, online they tend to be more intense than as we intend them to be. She can't see how you are saying it just what you said. And that can hurt with negs if they aren't calibrated right. So you shouldn't need more.

Having her qualify to you is a good way to go. I would insert those DHV stories or spikes in there when you can. You will need those attraction spikes to help take it to the next level.

Remember stage 4 up there is by far the most important. IF she doesn't feel comfortable with you or that there is a connection there then you won't get a date period.

You're doing well man.

Peace & Love,

Jon

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Ok things are going well.
High in confidence and am misxing things in "oh that remind me"
Have you ever?
Shit that helpos with the connection but am having trouble buiding the repore at the moment.
There hasn't been a moment where i get the..
"OH MY GOD.. i nkow exactly what you mean" from a girl.
If that makes sense?

That hint that you are on the same page and she must meet!
Any ideas ?
thanks in advance ...
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If you don't get it ask her when you are telling your story. So you'll be telling some deep story and then say, "Have you had an experience like that?" "Do you know what I mean?" Do these things as questions to make sure she is following you throughout the story. Then continue the story and use these little questions to ensure she understands what you are saying.

The other thing to consider is the topics you're talking about.

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I wondered if anybody had posted a similar question. I got through seven pages and was like fuck it, whatever.

I have two questions, one that is broad, the other specific to me.

On Facebook, do you think it matters whether you post something on the HBs wall or send it as a private message?
OBTW, this is the original message:
"Amy, what's happenin babe? Hey you wanna go look at some art on Saturday, maybe grab a cup of tea afterwards at the Celtic Connection because I know the caffeine would lead to some truely stimulating art-related conversations. Yes, I know my body is art but no, that is not all of what we will be talking about. hahahaha."

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My goal: To become a Pickup Artist in everything but name.

And yeah, This is (still) just the beginning.

Most of the time private message is the way to go.

If you know the girl ahead of time this should work pretty well. If you don't know her at all and are immediately asking her for a date that might not work too well.

This is something I'd send in private message though.

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Though at first it was a wall post, I changed my mind and DID make it a private message. Thanks so much J.

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My goal: To become a Pickup Artist in everything but name.

And yeah, This is (still) just the beginning.

No Worries!

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OK so i got number... actually rather to many i think i need to be more picky lol...
The thing is is the number game off the internet different??
Or is there more need for comfort building?

Really it isn't much different. You have to still recognize any areas of game that you need to fill in the gaps before you meet. Whether that be attraction or comfort.

My thought is that every interaction is obviously different. Some girls you get the chance to get more attraction that comfort built or vice versa. Realize what you are needing and do you best to fill in the gaps before the date through phone calls. Be careful if you use text because so much get misinterpreted.

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so i number closed an hb4.5 (i'm a newb dunno what HB is but i think i get the idea)

she looked better on pof but i was able to cyberstalk more photos of her online and lowered her from a 6.5/7 down to a 4.5.

My question is...do you guys ever take dates you may not normally go on for like a practice session? who knows, she may be cooler in person or better looking in person and if not then you just added to your dating experience?

I've gone out with some good looking girls online as well as some not so good looking ones but do you guys ever get cold feet on using some of the numbers you guys get? looks aren't everything to me but it is a good portion.

Hey h00ligan,

HB stands for Hot Babe. The number is what you would rate her.

Yes, I have taken dates with women I have met online. A.) For the experience of going and learning to get through the process. B.) To learn what I can from them. Such as what about my ad made them respond, etc.

There is a lot that can be learned from doing this. When in doubt it's only a bit of time out of your life. You can always just befriend her at the end of the date. She might have hot friends after all.

I think everyone gets cold feet a little bit with meeting girls for dates. That's natural but you will get use to it. In the mean time invite her out, learn what you can, and if you don't like her befriend her.

Jon

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thanks, that is pretty much what i thought it was, i actually thought it was hot b*tch and i knew the number fo sho.

ya thanks for the feedback. and i meant cold feet as in not calling because i didnt feel they were compatible not because i was afraid if that is what you meant.

so i will probably take that practice date, and yes she does have hott friends as my cyberstalking skills have shown me. so you may hear from me again about how to transition myself over to her friends soon. =)

i am also in communication right now with a potential HB8 (damn it for single blurry pics) what is your opinion about single blurry pics, should i pursue further or scrap it because there is a reason there is only one pic on there. from what i can make out she is an hb8. hair is nice, facial structure is nice but i cant see if there is any acne problems or body shot. my gut feeling is she is an hb7.5/8, just a little shy.

I'm not a fan of any girl with just one picture. I post a lot of pictures of my profile because I want people to see me, and also see I'm not hiding anything. I would ask for more photos when the time is right.

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