Going to one tonight, need some quick tips.

I got a girl that will probably be meeting me there, wondering how to K-close. The logistics here are a bit trick because:

1) apartments are rather small
2) parties in apartments are always crowded, leaving no room for privacy
3) balcony/porch is always filled with smokers
4) apartments on any floor other than first floor is tough to get a girl to walk all the way downstairs and then make a move.

so what do you think can be done to get her alone?

Easy - make a beer run or food run - don't tell everyone then every ass there is gonna want to go with. Simply in the middle of the conversation between the 2 of you drop it in there.

You "blah blah blah..."
HB "Blah blah...
You "Listen I need to step out and get some decent booze - keep it quiet - these alcoholics would drink paint thinner , I refuse to buy that crap wanna come with?"
HB "Sure"


See how you neg the group and she doesn't feel like she is included in the ignorant people at the party - makes her feel like she is above the rest but below you cuz she didn't think of it first. Easy DHV.

Now even if she denies - she has some expectation - she wants to know what you are gonna come back with and it lets her know (leaving without her) that you aren't tied to her - cat/string. She WILL come over and see what you bought - easy second set. Now don't go out and buy a bottle of Boones Farm or Maddog 20/20 - get quality.

It gets you and her in the hallway, parking lot, car etc. Alone time without a crowd. Who says you can't decide (en route) to blow off the party and go somewhere else - personal? Nothing.

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I got to get into this dude's pelt and crawl around for a few days. Who's the gopher's ally? His friends. The harmless squirrel and the friendly rabbit.

LOL. I'm glad I'm not the only one here who knows what that poison is.



Solid advice from duck, works well, and is very easy to pull off, since its done with such a natural flow that shows confidence, no sexual interest, class, spontaneity and independence.

What I can also add, is that sometimes - depending on the situation and girl - it doesn't matter if people are around. Kissing in public - especially party/clubs/bars - has become such a normal thing nowadays that you can close in the apartment under the right circumstances. I wouldn't recommend it as Plan A, but its good to know that just because your in an apartment, you have no chance of kissing. Its rather ridiculous to think of it that way actually, its a very limiting mindset that will only hold you back. Some would argue that kissing in front of alot of people is tacky and childish, fuck that, they are just bitter because they are alone and don't have anyone to enjoy the pleasures of sexual activities with. Now, don't go fondling the chick and slobbering all over each other, keep it short and sweet. Which will do 2 things for you, one being that its classy and the girl and everyone else who saw it will pickup on that aspect of your personality, but also it will leave your new lady friend wanting for more.

On the other side of things, if you want to isolate her first and then kiss her. Theres a bunch of different things you can do that follow the same basic foundation of what Duck said earlier. If you can't go get alcohol for some reason, the food idea would work as well. However, if you've developed a certain level of comfort with the girl, and she is showing signs of interest. Tell her to come get some fresh air with you, and walk; works perfect if the beach or a park is close. Almost anything can be used, some work better than others, all depending on your situation. If are both cannabis users, invite her out to your car for a late-night joint, etc etc.[/i]

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Amor est Vitae Essentia

who gives a shit if there are people there... she'll be drunk, drunk bitches don't care, in fact they love doing shit in public when drunk, eat her face out in front of everyone, why do you care, and she'll love it worked way too many times for me, it's just evil...