Okay I've been seeing this girl a while and we're both legal by a year

shes not a virgin, I am :/, obviously as she is my girlfriend I should be having sex with her. We started calling it official today which is great

I thought I would geek out on the theory of relationships and put it into practice

-So how do you initiate sex with your girlfriend? Do you just kiss and then escalate from there?

-How do you keep her attracted and keep in control of the relationship?

Little things like this, those of you experts out there just let me in on your tips and what worked for you

Thanks

Bump

Ok good sir, your questions are good ones and relatively easy for you to go with.

1. Sex - You need to kino escalate subtly first, then kiss and from there escalate more. For some good information on Sexual Framing see sexual-attraction-explained-in-depth-vt40419.html
If are wanting a more explained kino escalation, I'd be happy to give it to you. Just PM me and I'll messege it to you.

2. Keeping Her - Keeping a girl is a very simple concept, rather YOU can make it very simple. First of all, if you gamed her through Mystery Method I'm going to say you have made it possibly hard. However, all you need to do is keep a confident/fun personality, but you also need to be caring of her and her needs. Alot of guys in PUA fail in relationships because they think they always need to be cocky and confident, thats great and all but if you take that to far you will lose your girl.

Those are just some generalities, if you have more indepth questions feel free to ask.

Ahh thanks jsquared, no I didnt game her through any routines I've developed a natural personality tbh, I had that personality before but didnt realise haa.

Yeah kino escalation is easy enough for me to figure out, I've got some good guides.

She is a pretty girl and gets a lot of attention from other guys, like when I'm with her she'll get random phone calls and texts lol, but I play it kool and act unaffected because it doesnt bother me I can honestly say. She talked about her ex a bit and then I ignored that, took it as a shit test and there you go.

Just whilst we're on the subject and seeing as your offering to help me with some advice , the day before I got together with my girl I started speaking to this other girl who is INCREDIBLY gorgeous lol and I dont feel anything for her past her looks but it would be nice to keep her as an option SHOULD anything go wrong with my babe , I'm thinking about mentioning that I've been with my gf when she asks me what I'm up to as I really dont want to jeordise my relationship.

Your view?

So so....I'd suggest you LJBF her, thats the easiest way to "keep her around".

this topic is pretty old but one thing you should do especially starting off as a virgin is read up on different sexual manouvers that u can do youll learn what your girl likes over time but give yourself the upper hand by coming prepared to the party, learning how to go down on a woman properly is one of the best things you can do watching her body twitch and hearing her moan is one of the greatest things to experience

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K listen man you need to talk to her about it and let her know you are a virgin...If she likes you then it wont be a problem at all! and if it is then you should not be with her. Dont be ashamed be confident and she will understand....honestly its not as scary as you would think. The first time I has sex I was so nervex but it was with somone I really did care about (a good girlfriend who I had known for a while) and it was amazing for both of us!

A couple of things I would recommend before you have sex

1. Make sure your breath is good! nothing is worse then having sex with somone who has gross breath! floss, brush, get a toung scraper and clean your toung, and wash your mouth out with mouth wash...this should do the trick. You would be suprised at how many peoples breath stink even after brushing.

2. Have a couple drinks before hand....dont get drunk!! never get drunk because you will look like an idot! have a couple rum and cokes to relax you so your not shaking and over thinking any thing.

3. shower...this is a given but make sure you smell good and your pits dont smell like taco bell lol

4. Pre jerk it lol As weird as this sounds it going to make you last alot longer when it comes down to geting down! wax the lizard a few hours before she comes over so your not a one minute man....or a 10 second man lol The first time you will not have as much control if you dont.

5. Clean your room and sheets...agian should be a given. Also having a vanilla candle on before she comes can make your room smell wicked.

6. Learn how to be great at forplay! read up on it because If she isint hot and heavey before you start then chances are she wont have a good time....women are not like men hence the whole "pua" thing. You need to warm her up before you get down.

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